tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-317116542024-03-27T01:18:18.024-04:00The Molly Bawn ChroniclesIt started in kindergarten with pens and ink pots and blotting paper. Since then I've loved writing. Transferring the noise in my head to paper calms the chaos. If a worthwhile thought occasionally emerges, I'll keep it here with memories, stories and other random trivia, of interest mainly to myself and, with a bit of luck, to the odd passerby.mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.comBlogger571125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-37432900608028117162024-01-03T15:38:00.000-05:002024-01-03T15:38:01.844-05:00Goodbye 2023, Hello 2024!<p style="text-align: center;"><span> </span>Maybe, I thought, as I sat on my gardening stool, clipping the mint plant by the front porch, I should rename my blog. There's not been much in the way of chronicling anything here in recent years. "Occasional Random Ravings," maybe? Or "Very Occasional Random Ravings"? "Books, Quilts and Random Ravings"? Because these are the things that clutter my mind, especially the random ravings.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Intoxicated by the scent of cut mint, I thought what a good omen it was that the first day of the year should be so inviting that, after a chilly and wintery week since Christmas, whatever needed doing inside was abandoned as we headed out into the warmth and the sunshine. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyLO-0QS7hG9r6jw5034HTiRgwGl2AMhMESFIAUL4ZHX8hEhyphenhyphenL9YXRLkkObi2K96EXgVXlo72J1502As_7L0koExrN1AyH7XIcz7641irZG-RGPM1oy49x4R3YzvpioG8mIub6tH-n6fixeZ1lKkpxBCKzg29_PDwdD0eKfLBRWJgG6gh9NWJuTQ/s4032/20240101_141214.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="1816" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyLO-0QS7hG9r6jw5034HTiRgwGl2AMhMESFIAUL4ZHX8hEhyphenhyphenL9YXRLkkObi2K96EXgVXlo72J1502As_7L0koExrN1AyH7XIcz7641irZG-RGPM1oy49x4R3YzvpioG8mIub6tH-n6fixeZ1lKkpxBCKzg29_PDwdD0eKfLBRWJgG6gh9NWJuTQ/s320/20240101_141214.jpg" width="144" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><p style="text-align: center;"><span> It was so beautiful, sitting out there, the air balmy, the sky blue, the only twitterers I love twittering away in the trees and the OC being neighborly, trimming crepe myrtles for the neighbor across the street. That's him - the grey blur among those bushes.</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span><br /></span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_PCh3yXDzkZPj0hjTA7Ud1vwJvZSQITMAIQBiqv_Sa1DTXEk5UFk0iBrTGZ4aHe0disTql6xVTNGRvtENNbKR9sqlbIp3ZFTPN0KwH2iEZxub0NxQpWufrfRkOkENPVPFsVdukFAKGAIOHuCixTcBSBM5p1v-rXIWB0Kk35B3YEC1wiVeA4RoXQ/s4032/20240101_141248.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="1816" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_PCh3yXDzkZPj0hjTA7Ud1vwJvZSQITMAIQBiqv_Sa1DTXEk5UFk0iBrTGZ4aHe0disTql6xVTNGRvtENNbKR9sqlbIp3ZFTPN0KwH2iEZxub0NxQpWufrfRkOkENPVPFsVdukFAKGAIOHuCixTcBSBM5p1v-rXIWB0Kk35B3YEC1wiVeA4RoXQ/s320/20240101_141248.jpg" width="144" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div style="text-align: center;">I've always loved that week between Christmas and New Year. Frosty outside. Frosty, snow-flakey etchings on the windows. Curled up by the fire with books I'd gotten as gifts or, if it was getting dark, just watching fantastical shapes thrown by the flames onto the dining room wallpaper. Walking outside, you'd better be bundled up with scarves and mittens, crunching along the icy paths. It's the feeling of it all I miss, certainly not the temperature.</div><p></p><p style="text-align: center;">The new year fills me with optimism. Maybe this'll be the year I'll kick all those half-made quilts to the curb; or get back to writing regularly; or unravel that bainin sweater I started eons ago and abandoned when my mistakes made it a joke that nobody would ever wear; or maybe even dig those boxes of pre-digital photos out of the darkest regions of my sewing room closet and make the books for my children that, so far, I've only fantasized about. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Maybe, maybe, maybe.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Meanwhile, I had downed tools on the porch and swapped them out for pen and paper. Want to write? As the OC is fond of saying "There's nothing like the doin' to get things done!" It's no longer safe to leave things 'til tomorrow when we know that our tomorrows are numbered.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Yup. A new year is a sure sign that time's a-passin'. The balmy weather of New Year's day certainly passed and now we're back to huddling inside!</p><p style="text-align: center;">Maybe my enthusiasm will hold this time, and you'll find, if not exactly chronicles, at least a few, occasional, random mutterings. </p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-9612137329123757782023-07-10T15:54:00.001-04:002023-07-10T15:54:40.564-04:00Dog Days<p class="__web-inspector-hide-shortcut__"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">The title of an early Edna O'Brien book was</p><p style="text-align: center;"> "August is a wicked Month."</p><p style="text-align: center;"> I don't think it had much to do with meteorology but what a perfect description of August's weather, and July's too, here in Florida! Back in the first flush of my current biking enthusiasm (February? March?) I didn't think I'd still be peddling in mid-summer so call me surprised! That I am. These last few weeks we've moved into the dog days - high nineties, even a hundred some days with humidity to boot. Five minutes outside and you need a change of clothes. But, somehow, once on the bike, moving through the air, it doesn't feel so hot. Even with the long sleeves. As long as there's room for air to flutter between them and my skin. </p><p style="text-align: center;">So. Another Monday morning of wicked weather. Climb into the shorts, down the coffee, climb on the bike. Helmet? Check. Gloves? Check. Water bottle? Check. Sunglasses? Check. Off we go. With ever creakier knees, I'm not much of a long haul walker or hiker these days but put me on the bike and I'm ten again, climbing Cratloe hill with my dare devil friend, Mary G, then freewheeling back down at gravity-induced speed, hair flying (no such thing as a helmet back then)</p><p style="text-align: center;"> "Look Ma, no hands!" </p><p style="text-align: center;">Our mothers would've killed us. But we had the run of the countryside back then, especially in summer, free as the day was long.</p><p style="text-align: center;">On our way back, in along the Ennis Road, there was an old ruined castle that stood out in a field full of cowslips and thistles and lazily munching cattle. No question, of course we stopped, leaving our bikes in the ditch, off to climb and pick wild flowers. We had such fun, in that ruined pile of rocks, trying to get up as high as we could on the rickety steps, half of which had tumbled to the ground decades before we were born. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Best that our mothers couldn't see us. Helicopter mothering hadn't been invented yet. Ours made sure we knew the rules and woe betide us if we broke them - there would be consequences. I think they trusted that we had enough brain cells, not to mention fear of those consequences, to stay out of trouble and danger. But adventure was another story, even if it involved the possibility of a few broken bones. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Hacyon days.</p><p style="text-align: center;">* * *</p><p style="text-align: center;">There was, mercifully, a little cloud cover this morning. And a breeze. Rain predicted for later. Wrestling with the wind slowed me down some but there were places the wind missed where, in spite of the distant moan of a lawnmower, it was so still you could hear the sun shining and the sound of a leaf hitting the ground. </p><p style="text-align: center;">There was a flock of ten wild turkeys in the drive way and on the lawn of a house I passed. Nine of them were doing their turkey business, beaks to the grass, munching on worms and bugs, a few kicking up flower-bed mulch in search of more exotic fare. The tenth, though, was on a different mission. A pick-up truck was parked in the driveway and number ten was pecking at its shiny crome bumper. He could see his own reflection and had fallen in love. He pecked at it again and again, talking to it in turkey-speak (gobble-gobble) hoping maybe that his new "friend" would come out and help him search for grubs?</p><p style="text-align: center;">I don't pretend to understand a lot of Rumi quotes but there was one on my calendar a few months ago that spoke to me.</p><p style="text-align: center;">"Anything you do every day</p><p style="text-align: center;">can open into the deepest spiritual place</p><p style="text-align: center;">which is freedom."</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">I'm not looking for danger, trouble or even adventure these days, but the peace I feel peddling along, blue sky above, trees all around, is truly a pearl without price.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">And now the rain is hammering down outside, just as predicted. This being Florida though, it won't last long. Chances are good that, in another hour, the sky will be blue again, the sun shining, the ground steaming and the dog days here to stay for a while.</p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-50000651776324324102023-06-15T15:58:00.000-04:002023-06-15T15:58:07.464-04:00The Wheels on the Bike go Round and Round<p style="text-align: center;">I seem to be on a three month rotation here - December, March and now June - already! There was a time when I posted every week, even a month when I posted every day - anyone remember NABLOPOMO? </p><p style="text-align: center;">Life rushes by, I mean to post something but then, in a blink, three months have passed.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Time for an update.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> We dusted off our bikes in January and have been riding ever since. The OC bikes every day - going for land speed records! He never does things by halves whereas I, apparently, do, as evidenced by all those half-made quilts. Finishing them has become my mission. The clock is ticking and the thought that they'd be carted off to the nearest thrift shop upon my demise fuels my determination, this year as never before. So I half-ass the biking too, going not every day but every other day. Which not only keeps it relaxing but leaves time between for quilting, reading, gardening, yoga, navel gazing and, at least once every three months, blogging. </p><p style="text-align: center;">In the early months the weather was perfect, short sleeves the order of the day. I went out early yesterday in long sleeves, even though it was already eighty degrees. Having spent my childhood in raincoats and wellies, I love the sunshine here, but I burn. And freckle. And wrinkle - and how! And this in spite of slatheration with high SPF sunscreen. So - long sleeves from now 'til cooler days return. I like and respect Dr. Dermatologist, but I'd rather not give her any more business.</p><p style="text-align: center;">So there I was, a sight to warm the hearts of alien children in search of their mother from whom they'd been separated when their UFO landed - There she is! There's our Mama - in that driveway over there! But they're wrong, of course. I'm not an alien, I'm not their mother, I just look like her.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> It's the helmet.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> The OC insists I wear it even though it flattens my hair. He also makes me wear fingerless biker gloves. At lycra though, I draw the line.</p><p style="text-align: center;">As I peddle down the driveway I note that we have clouds this morning, piled high on the horizon, soaring above the trees, mountains of woolly grey with silver tipped tops reaching up to where there is nothing but blue. I'm glad of them, they'll keep me cooler. There's always the chance,of course, that they'll blot out the blue and dissolve and I'll come home like a drowned rat. But I'll take that chance.</p><p style="text-align: center;">The OC rides for at least twenty miles, even on days where he says he's going to take it easy. The man can't help himself. Habits of a lifetime. And me? On my every-other-days? I peddle faster or slower depending on how much, or not, my knees ache. And when I come to a hill I downshift, and zig-zag, which always brings to mind The Mag. Sr. Margaret was a Kerry woman. She taught us Irish and in one lesson we were reading, in Irish, about a donkey and how, at a hill, he would, as the Irish phrase put it "take both sides of the road with him" meaning he was doing the same zig-zag as I was doing now because he was a clever fellow and knew he'd climb more efficiently that way than if he tried to go straight up. I take comfort in knowing I'm at least as smart as a donkey, and I'm sure The Mag must smile Up There to know that I still remember that long ago lesson.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And now the driveway is in sight again. It's been an hour, give or take five minutes. The clouds cleared. The long sleeves protected me from sun and wind. I don't feel like a drowned rat but I do feel like I'm melting. I glug some water, remove my helmet and stagger inside.</p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-76858046026673922023-03-27T23:08:00.004-04:002023-04-21T20:05:58.449-04:00Blessed by a Little Grey Frog<p style="text-align: center;"><span> The newly green trees are crowded these March days with a vatican-load of cardinals - not the red-hatted ones but the red-feathered variety.</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span> It was S</span>unday - we were planting basil and tomatoes. The blue dome of the sky arched over me, the sun was warm on my back, while the cardinals serenaded me from the bamboo. They sang their lungs out, full of the joys of Spring. As I eased a basil plant from its nursery pot, a little grey frog jumped to the ground. </p><p style="text-align: center;">"Well, hello there," I said. </p><p style="text-align: center;">There was dirt on his back, dirt on his head, dirt between his legs and his torso - he must have been hunkered down and cozy in that litte pot before this lummox of a human so rudely dislodged him. He wasn't holding grudges though. He didn't object when I nudged him onto my wrist, wiggling his hind quarters and sending crumbs of soil flying. He settled down, in no hurry to move away. He wasn't a military fellow - too tiny for one thing - but he <i>was</i> wearing grey camo (under the bits of soil) But then, my new friend and his ilk were probably wearing camo when we were still living in caves.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I don't often go to church these days, which sometimes causes me an uneasy twinge of guilt - the nuns are still very much alive in my head. Looking at this little, trusting creature though, it occurred to me, that God is found, not only in cathedrals, but in gardens, in birdsong, in seashells and flowers and in the littlest creatures with whom we share our spaces. Here was this little fellow, doing and living exactly as his maker intended for him to do and to live, unconcerned with all the problems us humans invent for ourselves. I was glad I had used my hands, and not the trowel, to dig the basil out. He did finally jump from my wrist and settled in close to a nearby clay pot.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> "Stay awhile," I told him, and went back to planting. </p><p style="text-align: center;">The OC wandered by and I introduced him to my new friend, explaining that we'd been having a chat. He smiled. He knows that when you get helpers in the garden it's wise to humor them no matter how daft they may be, but then he smiled again (this time not his " humouring the crazy lady" smile.) </p><p style="text-align: center;">"Look!" </p><p style="text-align: center;">He pointed behind me to where two elegant cranes were stepping daintily through the trees. "Ladies" is how I think of them when they're earthbound. They sound more like drunken sailors on a bender when they're airborne, raucously honking across the sky. I was relieved to see Froggy had taken to his heels - just as well not to become a tasty morsel for the "Ladies".</p><p style="text-align: center;">My sister goes running in Cratloe Woods. It's a peaceful, piney place on a hillside out in the country, a few miles from where we grew up. I've been there with her. In fact the OC and I got married in the tiny church there, so I completely understand why she calls those woods her cathedral.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I am too far removed from Cratloe now so I content myself sitting in pews of grass and mud along with frogs, lizards and sand hill cranes. Sometimes a tortoise wanders in and delivers a soundless sermon. And all the while the cardinal choir sings boisterous psalms in the bamboo soaring over our heads.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-32283128891151900962022-12-02T15:47:00.000-05:002022-12-02T15:47:12.466-05:00I Identify as an Antique<p style="text-align: center;">This post was prompted by a comment from <a href="https://www.blogger.com/profile/09015827501648296977" target="_blank">Sabine.</a></p><p style="text-align: center;">A few nights ago, I was making Turkey Pot Pie for supper. Pretty predictable two days after Thanksgiving. The biscuit topping was waiting in the wings, the onions were sizzling away in the pan with the carrots and celery, World Cup soccer a dull roar in the background. God was in his heaven. All was, for now, right with the world. Until New York Times Cooking instructed me to "Add flour."</p><p style="text-align: center;">Whoa Betsy! Flour? What flour?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Nowhere had I seen flour on the ingredients list though, now that I thought about it, it made a lot of sense the next step being to add turkey stock.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Off I trot to consult the oracle and sure enough, there it is, at the top of the second page:1/4 cup of flour, missed by the printer. You probably don't give a rat's ass about my turkey pot pie - you're wondering where Sabine fits in. Well, while I was there the oracle told me she'd left a comment.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Another one? What more could there be to say? Curious, I hunted it down - and laughed. Her new comment was a comment on my reply to someone else's comment. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Stay with me, I'm getting there.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> I'm a believer in providing backstory, to the OC's ongoing chagrin. I want you to smell those onions, to hear that sizzle, to be in my head while I untangle the story that I know is in there, somewhere. I think one of my ancestors might have been a seanachai.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Sabine wondered (I could picture her eyes rolling in much the same way the OC's and Youngest Son's have often done when they've made similar suggestions) if it might be time I tried making oatmeal the easy way - in the microwave, in the interests of not burning the stuff while I run off to make the bed or such while it simmers. As has happened. </p><p style="text-align: center;">What the menfolk fail to understand is that here, under their noses, is a genuine antique - me. In currently popular parlance you might say I identify as an antique. They'll appreciate it after I'm gone. When the sobbing is over.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And what qualifies me as an antique you might reasonably ask? </p><p style="text-align: center;">Mostly my memories.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> How many of you out there remember hearing the rattle of the milk truck every morning as a child? We'd leave the empties on the front porch every night and the milk man would replace them in the dim light of dawn next morning - with lots of clattering and scant respect for those still sleeping.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Or how about the coalman? At the first chill of winter, he'd come clopping down our road with his horse and cart, and shoulder bags of coal to our coal shed in the back garden. He was the closest thing I'd ever seen to a black man. He'd probably been a white baby, but his pores were so filled with coal dust now that the only white in his face was the whites of his eyes. I always felt sorry for the horse who usually looked to be, if you'll pardon the vulgarity, three farts from death.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And then there were the chimney sweeps with their black brushes. </p><p style="text-align: center;">And curly-haired Francis, the breadman, in his van and his green shop coat delivering fresh bread to our door every evening. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Paddy the post delivering mail on his bicycle every day of my childhood. He was still there, still on his bicycle, still delivering the mail when I'd come home for a break from college.</p><p style="text-align: center;">The OC is a fan of all things modern and innovative. He has had moderate success dragging me into the 21st. century. But not without a struggle. The food processor lived in its original box for many months before I approached it cautiously, as you might a wild animal that could attack at any moment. I did tame it though and now we are on friendly terms. But I still don't completely trust the microwave. It's all very handy for reheating cups of tea that have grown cold, but cooking my oatmeal in it? It just wouldn't seem right.</p><p style="text-align: center;">The most convincing proof of my claim though is the pony and trap. Whenever I spent any time out the country with my Granny we went everywhere in the pony and trap. And if it was hay saving time, I'd get to ride on the horse drawn float to bring the hay ricks back to the barn with my uncles.</p><p style="text-align: center;">There's a blessing I've often heard, or is it a curse? "May you live in interesting times."</p><p style="text-align: center;">I spent my childhood in wonderfully interesting times. It never occurred to me that things could change so much in one lifetime. I miss them now. "You don't know what you've got 'til it's gone," as the song goes. </p><p style="text-align: center;">These days I live in the present, thankful that I'm still here, thankful for all our blessings, thankful for our modern gadgets, even for the microwave, because how would I warm up my cold cup of tea without it?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Cheers Sabine!</p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-2634160819613161072022-11-05T17:21:00.001-04:002022-11-05T17:24:53.642-04:00Nine Stitches per Minute and other Forms of Excitement<p><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"> I was stitching binding on the quilt I've almost finished (always a victory for me, sometimes taking years, even decades.) I was trying to be disciplined - 30 minutes each morning, another 30 in the evening. But just because it's on the agenda, doesn't make it happen. This day though, I was determined. My deadline was approaching, I'd been loafing, and loafing doesn't cut it. My 30 minutes turned into 60. </p><p style="text-align: center;">How many stitches go into binding a queen size quilt anyway? I started watching the clock. Nine stitches per minute (are you yawning yet?) Yes, I timed it - nine, give or take a stitch due to knots and snarls in the thread. Experience has shown that these are not more quickly unknotted or unsnarled by muttering obscenities under my breath, or, in a house with nobody else in it, shouting them. Patience is key. Nine stitches per minute would be five hundred and forty per hour and, with the hours I've already done and those still to go, the final tally would be in the thousands. At this point my head started to throb, Enough math. Two sides done which, as it's square, meant I was halfway there.</p><p style="text-align: center;">My next plan was to make bread. I am not good at multi-tasking. I know this but, as mentioned elsewhere, the knowing does not stop me from occasionally trying. This was one of those occasions.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> And somewhere in the mix I needed to get a package to the post office. </p><p style="text-align: center;">But I digress. A habit that drives the OC crazy. I tell him I'm too old to learn new tricks, leaving out any reference to dogs of course. Don't need to give him more ammunition. There I go again. You're probably starting to feel his pain. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Where was I? </p><p style="text-align: center;">The bread. I mixed up the dough, yeast bread this time, a long-time favorite recipe. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Ten minutes to knead, an hour and a half to rise. Time enough to clean up the kitchen, get to the P.O. come back, punch the dough down, shape it for the final rise, run to the grocery store for milk, back in time to turn on the oven, pop in the bread, set the timer. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Run rabbit, run.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Supper for one? Onions, mushrooms, oil, butter. Chop chop chop. Stir stir stir. Boil water, pop in ravioli. Set timer: four minutes. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Oops! Trouble. </p><p style="text-align: center;">In my speed and efficiency, I completely obliterated the time remaining for the bread. No worries. It should be done, I guessed, about the same time as the ravioli. Except - when the timer went off for the ravioli my attention was all on draining them, stirring them into the onion mixture and drooling in anticipation.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Bread? What bread?</p><p style="text-align: center;">And then a whiff, mid bite, of something baking. Hmm, what could it be? </p><p style="text-align: center;">#%@$*! I explode from my chair, wrench open the oven door, extract the bread.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Muttered obscenities don't work in the kitchen either, as it turns out.</p><p style="text-align: center;">That was last week. The OC is home; the stitching is done - yay; the bread was eaten, in spite of needing a axe to <strike>slice </strike>hack it, though I won't be sharing that info with my dentist.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I'm thinking of using some old, seldom-used lipstick to scrawl a message on my bathroom mirror where I'll be reminded every morning.....</p><p style="text-align: center;">"One task at a time!"</p><p style="text-align: center;">It's worth a try, but - wouldn't life be awfully dull? </p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-81756264944432650942022-10-21T01:07:00.007-04:002022-10-29T13:41:20.758-04:00A Day in the Life, or Two, or Three, of a Woman Alone<p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"> The OC is away, out west, visiting our youngest son. I was too, for a while, but I'm back now. I left them to do all the things for which testosterone is a prerequisite. Chicken coop demolition for instance. Son tried, but the racoons, savage beasts that they are, won. It wasn't worth the aggravation, and the chicken murders, especially as eggs are cheap. And chopping logs for firewood? I wouldn't be able to lift the axe, never mind swing it. And if by some miracle I did I'd probably chop off my foot and a trip to the ER would be so inconvenient!</p><p style="text-align: center;">I arrived back home at two in the morning, piddled around, in spite of being exhausted, 'til five when I finally went to sleep. And so, the stage was set for getting up late and indulging my night-owl tendencies which I try to keep in check when the OC is home.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And now, when I do, finally, go to bed and lie in the dark, waiting for sleep, I've been hearing some scritch-scratching overhead and I wonder uneasily if we have lodgers? The pitter-patter of tiny feet...squirrels? mice? worse?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Most mornings, pre-coffee, me and my bucket go for a waltz around the garden, picking up fallen branches and pinecones, things that give the lawn mower indigestion; watering plants that are thirsty; talking to birds. There are hundreds of cardinals around here and they never fail to make me smile. This morning, as I wandered, they were always nearby, flitting in red flashes through bushes, swooping from tree to tree, flirting with each other and, I'm pretty sure, listening to me telling them how beautiful they are. Talks to birds, must be crazy? I'm okay with that, love those birds.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Yesterday I had a bone density test - so much fun, this thinning of the bones! But it was painless and quick and then I met a friend for coffee. We chatted about this and that, including the benefits to health and longevity of healthy eating - all the while munching on our chocolate croissants. We did our best to solve the world's problems and, though we didn't solve any of them, we did feel better for trying. She then went home to her husband, and I went shopping. </p><p style="text-align: center;"> I went to a favorite shop in search of new sheets, one where it's always fun to browse and, in the middle of the linens' aisle, I was hailed by a familiar voice. Turning around I was face to face with our heavily tattooed, purple punk haired former yoga instructor. We've not gone back since finding, during covid, that it was as easy to practice at home with YouTube videos, and a lot more convenient. So - a little awkward. We small talked our way through five minutes, I heard about her upcoming trip to India, news of a mutual friend and, when there was nothing more to say, we said goodbye and I made a beeline for the stationery aisle.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I didn't find any sheets, but I didn't come away empty-handed. Have I told you about my addiction? To notebooks? journals? greeting cards? stationary of every stripe? As an addict, this was the aisle from which I should resolutely turn away and hasten towards the exit. But as much as I try to slap my hand away from reaching out in these places.........well, you know how addiction works.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> I don't need any more notebooks.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> I know this, but the knowing doesn't help. </p><p style="text-align: center;">They're stashed all over the house and when I die my children will find them. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I can see it now in my mind's eye. It might make them sad; they might wipe away a tear or two - </p><p style="text-align: center;">"If only we'd known how serious this was, we could have staged an intervention and dear old Ma would still be here, scribbling away faster than ever, trying to fill them all...."</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">It was getting on into the afternoon. Time to go home. To a cup of tea, a few chapters of my book, a half hour's stitching, something for supper - I'll be glad when the OC's back. I like cooking but dislike eating alone. Food is for sharing. </p><p style="text-align: center;">The evening reports came in from the testosterone duo - today's project - building steps on the deck.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> At nine p.m. I got a wild hair to make soda bread with raisins and, while it was baking, lowered my bones to the floor for some yoga, the better to make them creak less. I let the bread cool and had a slice with my hot cocoa. And then another slice, and another. It was either delicious or I was hungry, or both - don't judge me. </p><p style="text-align: center;"> And so, to bed, perchance to dream; perchance to not hear the lodgers scritch-scratching above me. Identifying same and giving them the heave-ho is most assuredly a job requiring testosterone.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-34787975013769041012022-08-24T13:14:00.003-04:002022-08-25T12:10:42.954-04:00Possible Crime Scene?<p style="text-align: center;"><span> </span>Time was when our house was a hive of activity - five children, an assortment of labs, springers, cats, chinchillas, a variety of reptiles and, occasional OC sightings. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><span> </span>Life's calmer now and, while I do miss the energy and the chaos, the slow lane definitely has it's charms.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><span> </span>Yoga for instance. My first attempt at yoga was in Brussels. Four children still at home along with their furry or slithering creatures, not to mention the language handicap. I didn't learn much in those classes since, as soon as I lay down on my mat, my brain took that as a signal for "Nap time!" As exhausting as life was in those days, a nap was probably more what I needed than yoga. And sure enough, a nod being as good as a wink to a <strike>blind</strike> tired (wo)man, I'd only regain consciousness when the bodies around me began gathering up their gear at the end of class.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Restful? Yes.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Embarrassing? Shamefully so as I slunk like a wraith from the room, still clueless about yoga. </p><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span> </span>Fast forward a few decades. Empty nest. Grandchildren yes, but far away. Just me, the OC, not even a cat. Pre covid we took classes at a yoga studio. During and apres covid we found classes on Youtube - all kinds of instruction on all kinds of yoga - free and right there in our own space whenever we choose. So convenient we never went back to the studio. And now, if a person happened to peek in our windows on any given afternoon in summer when it's too darn hot to be out in the garden, they might think they'd come upon a crime scene. Two bodies, limbs twisted for five minutes at a time into all kinds of knots or, more alarming still, sprawled motionless on the floor.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> <span> </span>What happened here? Should we call 911? </p><p style="text-align: center;"><span> </span>No need. We're alive, careful to adapt the poses to our advanced years. We wouldn't want the fire brigade coming to untangle us.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> <span> </span>This is how we roll. Finding forty five minutes to an hour every day to slow down, maintain mental as well as physical flexibility. How can we not feel connected to others when we realise that, while we're on our mats practicing yoga or impersonating corpses in savasana, there are millions, all over the world, doing likewise? All of us looking for peace and serenity. Lying there, eyes closed, just breathing, I find myself calmer, more tolerant and accepting of others just the way they are; calmer and more accepting of myself just the way I am; and more able to let go of the petty differences that divide us only if we let them. </p><p><span> </span></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-87559256596110735472022-08-03T13:46:00.000-04:002022-08-03T13:46:32.265-04:00A Trail of Books<p style="text-align: center;"> I was thinking this morning how grateful I am for small things, the cup of coffee I was drinking for instance and the person who makes it every morning; the way the bright sunshine banishes the dark the moment I open the bedroom blinds; and books - how grateful I am for books! Remember when computers were beginning to be something ordinary people could have in their homes? Books will soon be obsolete, we were warned. I shuddered at the thought. How awful would it be to no longer curl up in a comfortable chair and travel out from your room, in imagination, to meet people and see places you had little chance of meeting or seeing in your own neighborhood? There would still be stories but now you'd be reading them by the harsh, glaring light of a computer.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> My earliest memory of loving a book was turnng the pages of "The Ugly Duckling". I was enchanted by the pictures of the fluffy little ducklings, especially by the one who was so different from all the others. At that time I was just learning to use scissors and you can guess the rest. I took my beloved book and used it to practice my cutting skills, to my later dismay. Such are the tragedies of toddlerhood.</p><p style="text-align: center;">My first chapter books were a birthday gift from a family friend, an older lady who had introduced my parents to each other. "Auntie" Ita, with the gift of those three "Katy" books, expanded my reading horizons, sealing her place in my heart forever.</p><p style="text-align: center;">With Heidi I travelled to Switzerland. I loved her gruff Grandfather, the more because one of mine was already gone when I was born, the other died when I was 3 or 4. Little Women took me to America again (I'd been there once before with the "Katy" books) little guessing that I'd one day live there! Of the 4 sisters, as a tree climbing tomboy, I identified most with Jo. I wanted to<i> be</i> Jo, but, being young and fickle, I soon decided, upon reading the Mallory Towers books, that it'd be more fun to be Darrell Rivers and go away to boarding school, out from under the thumbs of the nuns, having midnight feasts and all kinds of adventures. I devoured those books!</p><p style="text-align: center;">In secondary school we were introduced to Dickens, Jane Austen, the Bronte sisters, George Elliot. When I found an excerpt I liked in our English reader it would send me haring off on my bicycle, across town, to the library, in search of the book it was taken from. </p><p style="text-align: center;"> In my teens I spent most of one summer up a tree at the end of our garden reading "Gone with the Wind". I had a cozy nest there, hidden from my mother and safe from pesky siblings. The only person who spied me there was my mother's friend, our neighbor Kitty, who would yell from her kitchen window "Molly W! You're going to fall out of that tree and break your arse!" (Kitty was not one to mince words, and, to her credit, she never ratted me out.)</p><p style="text-align: center;">I still have an old and battered copy of "Rebecca" that was a gift to my mother from a beau who predated my dad - the road not taken! Who would I be if she'd married him? Would my name be Rebecca? </p><p style="text-align: center;">By the time "The Thorn Birds" came my way, I already had two children of my own. Sitting up in bed reading it one night, I realised my eyesight was no longer perfect and I was going to need glasses.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Years later, I found Angela's Ashes and when I got to the last page, went straight back to the first to start over again. McCourt was writing about my hometown but from a completely different angle than what had been my experience growing up. Which only goes to show, no matter how well you think you know a place, you probably only know a very small part of it, mostly colored by your own life in that place.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Killing time at a library in Oregon a few years ago, waiting for an Uber, I came upon Niall Williams. Hmm. Familiar name, but why? Then I remembered having, many years ago, read a book he'd written with his wife about how they'd left high-paying jobs in New York and moved to Ireland to live in a falling down cottage in Co. Clare that had been left to her by her grandfather. Conditions were spartan and it rained <i>all</i> the time, but they persevered and here he was again! When I returned home I sought out "This is Happiness" at my local library and fell in love. Reading it was like taking a trip back to my roots without ever getting on a plane. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"> And now, for the last few weeks I've been enthralled with "Middlemarch". Where had it been all my life? I'm guessing the nuns balked at it being "a book for grown ups" as Virginia Wolfe famously called it. Safer to stay with "Mill on the Floss." What was most remarkable to me was how spot-on Eliot's perceptions are about us humans. Though first published in 1871, more than 150 years ago, her characters could step out of those pages, get a 2022 hairstyle, some modern clothing, drive a car instead of a horse drawn carriage and no one would be able to tell they came from another era, because under the skin, they are moved and motivated by the same needs and emotions as we are.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Without books I think I'd have lost my mind during Covid. We couldn't get together with friends but, fortunately, there were legions of new friends waiting for us between the covers of books. One of the great pleasures of reading, for me, is knowing I'm not alone. All the people who love the books I love are automatically my friends. Which isn't to say that if we don't like the same books we can't be friends. Some of the people I love most have different reading tastes and that's what makes the world go 'round! To get lost in books, to be moved by them to both laughter and tears, makes me realise how connected we all are by our shared humanity; that, for all our arguments and disagreements, especially in today's social environment, we are more like each other than different.</p><p style="text-align: center;">As a hopeless card carrying Luddite I'm glad those dire predictions have not come true, and those of us who choose to can still curl up in a cozy corner (or a nest in a tree) with the comforting heft of a book in our hands, glasses on our noses, imagination on "Go!"</p><h1 style="text-align: left;"> </h1><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-39550329506694403532022-07-25T13:24:00.001-04:002022-07-25T13:54:04.187-04:00Today's dessert: Humble Pie<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p style="text-align: center;">Remember Georgie Porgie? Pudding and Pie?</p><p style="text-align: center;"> He stuck in his thumb and pulled out a plum and said "What a good boy am I!" </p><p style="text-align: center;">I'd been thinking along with Georgie "What a good <i>girl</i> am I!" But, as it turned out, I didn't have a lot to feel smug about.</p><p style="text-align: center;">In January I started a quilt for eldest daughter, Liz, who finally found a pattern she loved. Since we lived in Montana for several of her growing up years, it was apt that she choose a design - Big Sky Star quilt, from <a href="https://plainsandpine.com/">Plains & Pine</a>, a quilter in Big Sky Country. (Since my ability to load photos on Blogger has gone up in smoke you can get some idea of what I'm making on her site.) And if you've been reading here a while you're probably rolling your eyes at mention of a new quilting project when, Lord knows, there are at least half a dozen UFOs languishing in a closet here, longing to be finished. Hush, I tell them, quit your whining, as I close that closet door. They'll be finished, all in good time. Where I come from - they say "When God made time he made plenty of it." Though I have to admit that, of late, the years are zooming by at warp speed.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Daughter Liz does have one of my earliest efforts but, so worn and faded now, I think it's only fit for her dog's bed - no offense Marty! Not to be too braggy, my quilting skills are better now than they were then, which (the braggy part) might hold the seeds of my current problem. </p><p style="text-align: center;"> My stash yielded up some of the twelve different fabrics needed. For the rest I had to visit a quilt shop (oh the suffering!) I have been avoiding quilt shops in recent years, knowing that, should I live to be a hundred, I'd have ample fabric here to make a quilt per month. As any quilter knows, once you darken those doors there's no way you'll be leaving without a few yards tucked under your oxter. Addiction comes in many colors.</p><p style="text-align: center;">So. Twelve different fabrics, the problem of where to best place each one, multiple bias edges, mirror images, about a thousand points that needed to meet each other exactly - how could I go wrong? </p><p style="text-align: center;">Let me count the ways!</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Starch everything, a friend said. But I hate starch. It was slow at first. I'd stitch and measure. The measurement mysteriously not being what it should be, I'd dutifully unpick my too hasty machine stitches. I even took the precaution of hand basting a few seams, then, flushed with success, stitched subsequent seams without that precautionary step. And, woe is me! Ended up groaning at my arrogance and wielding my seam ripper again. Gradually I learned how to slyly ease those (unstarched) bias edges so they'd fit precisely (more or less). Eventually, in spite of the molasses-like pace of un-stitching, I had several of the pieced diamonds stitched in rows. </p><p style="text-align: center;">So far so good.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Time to stitch the background pieces to the diamond rows. The star consists of eight wedges, two (mirror images of each other) forming a quadrant. I got one wedge beautifully finished. My feathers puffed out with pride and gladness. "Wow!" I congratulated myself, "I've got this nailed!"</p><p style="text-align: center;">I should have remembered what comes on the heels of pride. But, puffed and confident I soldiered on to the next eighth, excited at the idea of having a whole quarter finished.</p><p style="text-align: center;">All was well 'til I laid it beside the first. Alas! Something was not as it should have been. I frowned at it. Nothing changed. I muttered some magic words. Still nothing. I looked at it from another angle......and finally, enlightenment struck - mirror images! How did I not get that?? Out came the seam ripper <i>again</i>. </p><p style="text-align: center;">So over the last few weeks I've been eating, not just one slice of humble pie but the whole darn thing, a slice with each mistake. Normally I like pie. Apple? Strawberry? Peach? I'll take a big slice, please. But Humble pie? Not so tasty. My belly has sent repeated messages to my brain telling it to take measures to avoid any more helpings. </p><p style="text-align: center;">All mistakes notwithstanding, this is a really fun quilt to make. Same old, same old bores me. I love a new challenge. But maybe, just maybe, that sour, humble pie taste needs to linger a little while longer so I can finish the quilt without further resort to my seam ripper.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Then I'll be as smug and self satisfied as Georgie Porgie.</p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-51736473082178479312022-06-18T21:47:00.001-04:002022-06-18T21:47:55.032-04:00Surprise!<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9i7vmy-_wPfCfR67UbhiWpEI90-2X1g0az_9KFoCPKGH-HElqko59eMr6kJEyoJs53GNqfDMeJcwdiTks2VhPrZJTIr96cght2ghxoi5QZzftCSVOWP3G0Hewq_TIIMOwlpHLVX0tAdbDN7peuOBrxjjVPp-0mCwDjG8NWTA-U-BAuSI2wZM/s9248/20220616_150137%20(2).jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="9248" data-original-width="6936" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9i7vmy-_wPfCfR67UbhiWpEI90-2X1g0az_9KFoCPKGH-HElqko59eMr6kJEyoJs53GNqfDMeJcwdiTks2VhPrZJTIr96cght2ghxoi5QZzftCSVOWP3G0Hewq_TIIMOwlpHLVX0tAdbDN7peuOBrxjjVPp-0mCwDjG8NWTA-U-BAuSI2wZM/s320/20220616_150137%20(2).jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p></p><div style="text-align: center;">At the end of April we planted a bunch of seeds; made mental notes as to what was planted where; watered and pampered them along until some green popped up. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">We felt so clever.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"> A whole forest of dill, several different kinds of lettuce, parsley, sage, cilantro, tomatoes and several different kinds of peppers. The OC likes peppers - the hotter the better, understandable since, as a small child in Argentina, he ate hot peppers as snacks, the way a normal child would eat candy. As for me, give me some chicken and potatoes, a little salad on the side and pass the salt please. As they grew we were particularly intrigued with one plant that seemed to be doing better than all the other peppers we'd planted.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"> "What kind of pepper is this one?" I asked the OC, who is, after all, the CEO of the garden. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"Not sure," he replied, "but we'll find out by and by." </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Well, by and by came along and our lovely pepper plant developed some interesting buds. A few days later one of the buds started to open revealing a beautiful redish-wine color. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Finally the penny dropped! That's no pepper - that's the hibiscus we'd thought was over <i>there</i>! We'd planted the hibiscus seeds for fun, not confident that they would actually grow. Of course we're delighted that they did but, lesson learned, we'll not trust to memory next time but physically label everything!</div>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-88427632625473432612022-06-05T13:04:00.001-04:002022-06-05T13:55:38.376-04:00I Can See Clearly Now<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkhFC_SNjwGwzsLiMAlz-rnKO8hYcBSlPY55LAz3KKHPNl3rCXPFUR8swxHetmWJLdzWNDYkhuRTxOJ5RaISiPC17pIDTQCPiWrmkMXGWQR6k0Nd1gfiGH4HBQ_KF3If0CslgVMK79RiYLCwBYAG6X3XUa4f7GhSl2E1xGTw2ki1M9oxhCTsE/s9248/20220603_115652.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="9248" data-original-width="6936" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkhFC_SNjwGwzsLiMAlz-rnKO8hYcBSlPY55LAz3KKHPNl3rCXPFUR8swxHetmWJLdzWNDYkhuRTxOJ5RaISiPC17pIDTQCPiWrmkMXGWQR6k0Nd1gfiGH4HBQ_KF3If0CslgVMK79RiYLCwBYAG6X3XUa4f7GhSl2E1xGTw2ki1M9oxhCTsE/s320/20220603_115652.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"> Windows?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Yup. Nothing to do with computers but rather with those pieces of glass that turn a dwelling from a gloomy cave into a bright living space into which the sun can shine.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Which would you rather live in?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Me too.</p><p style="text-align: center;">But washing windows? Seriously? Not in my top ten favorite things to do. Doesn't even make it into the top twenty. There are forces driving me in any direction <i>but</i> the washing of windows.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Sure, I could hire someone to do the job. But ah. Would they do it right? There's the rub. As thoroughly as I would when motivated, which does happen, though not often enough. But this month - ta da! It's happening. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Even though at any hour of the day, any day of the week, any week of the year I'd rather be reading, stitching, puttering in the garden, collecting seashells at the beach or pretty leaves at the park for projects yet to be decided upon, it got to a point where, if I didn't address the window issue, we'd soon be living in a cave.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Buckets of water were commandeered, along with Pine Sol, rubber gloves, rags, paper towels, Windex and a step stool. </p><p style="text-align: center;">For the past week I've been washing windows;</p><p style="text-align: center;"> scouring mud from frames; removing, scrubbing and hosing down screens; evicting an army of disgruntled spiders and any number of tiny twigs from the tight spaces in which they had set up their housekeeping and reproduction facilities. At least they <i>looked</i> like little twigs. It wasn't until they wriggled that I realized they were tiny creepy crawly centipedes - agh!</p><p style="text-align: center;">My mother-in-law never wasted her time on the kinds of activities I engage in to avoid or defer domestic chores. Whenever she arrived for a visit, no matter how frantic my last-minute dusting, sweeping and polishing had been, as soon as she'd taken off her coat, she'd set herself to cleaning. Which always got me silently seething. We did not live in squalor! Our house was clean enough! But not for her. In spite of resenting the implicit criticism, I knew from whence her passion came. Having lost everything and every place she loved in the war, she treasured what she'd won back through hard work and perseverance - and she kept it all spotless. And now, those same hardships that had driven her from her home to the other side of the world are happening again to her fellow countrymen. I'm glad she's not here to see it.</p><p style="text-align: center;">But, back to the windows. They're why I haven't blogged this past week. But wait, you say. What about all those other empty weeks? Hmm. Laziness? No inspiration? Too many good books, too many stitching projects? Horror at the brutality, war and intolerance that parts of the human race are inflicting on other parts? Maybe all of the above, and then some. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Who knew that window washing would be what finally shook me out of my lethargy? But there was another motivating factor. A few days ago, a <a href="https://in-this.blogspot.com/2022/05/change-and-perhaps-bit-of-decay.html">long-time fellow blogger</a> threatened to quit. I tried to comment, to say Oh no, please don't go! But Blogger wouldn't let me. Why they have to change what was working perfectly well is beyond me. So, this is for you Pam - Please don't go!</p><p style="text-align: center;">Meanwhile, though I'll never be, nor even aspire to be, the domestic goddess my mother-in-law was, there <i>is</i> satisfaction in clean and gleaming windows.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And in not living in a cave.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-62092725058590847362022-03-28T14:08:00.000-04:002022-03-28T14:08:19.060-04:00Let Me Count the Ways<p style="text-align: center;"> Oh dear, oh dear. In spite of all my intentions to do better, here we are again with more than a month between posts. I refuse to succumb to Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, TikTok et al. How noble of me, right? Ha! The OC would opine it's because <i>brevity</i> is not in my toolbox. He's constantly waiting for the point, and I usually have one, just need to provide backstory for clarity. It's not as though we have a tight schedule. We're in the sunset of life, so <i>relax, </i>I tell him, enjoy the dulcet tinkling of my voice before it's silenced forever.</p><p style="text-align: center;">So how have I been staying so busy that I can't write some regular lines here? Let me count the ways!</p><p style="text-align: center;">Burnt porridge for breakfast this morning. How, you might ask, does one burn porridge? <i>Teacher, teacher! I know! </i>Just walk out of the kitchen. Which is what I did. To sort laundry. To presoak filthy gardening socks. To remove an old ironing board cover and replace it with a new one. And while I'm in the sewing room why not quickly stitch that small part of the quilt I'm working on that I'd pinned last evening? While the porridge slowly simmered. On LOW, to my credit. But my thrifty soul got side-tracked some more. Not content with removing the old cover, I decided the strong elastic cord and the perfectly fine velcro fasteners on it were worth saving. It only took a few minutes to snip all around the edges but then I became aware of an ominous odor drifting in from the kitchen. Agh! The porridge!</p><p style="text-align: center;">It was what you might charitably call <i>well done</i>. Stirring it produced black flecks but at least it wasn't stuck to the bottom of the pot. Not wanting to start over, I threw in some raisins and nuts and ate it anyway - for my sins. Which reminds me of the book I'm reading. A Tibetan monk has taken a three year retreat from his prestigious position as teacher and abbot of a monastery. He starts with a little money but after a week it runs out and he has to finally become what he set out to become - a mendicant yogi. No money and he's really hungry. Embarrassed and humiliated, he goes to a restaurant and asks for food. They tell him to come back at closing and they'll give him some. He deals all day with his hunger pangs and returns in the evening to the kitchen door of the restaurant. They've scraped all the food that was left on customers' plates into a large pot and stirred it all together. From this they serve him a large scoop. "The rest would be served to the dogs. I ate standing at the door - a more delicious meal than any I had eaten at five-star hotels." Reading that made me grateful that I have the means to cook my own food, even if I do occasionally burn it!</p><p style="text-align: center;">I've never been good at multi-tasking. I've always known that focusing on one task at a time is a better way for me. Nobody's even had to pay me large sums of money to do this research. Life taught me. Not that knowing stops me, see above. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Since the Arctic conditions of my last post long ago faded into beautiful gardening weather, we've been outside a lot. The OC became obsessed with removing a large clump of mistletoe from way up high in one of our oak trees. Best to remove it before the tree leafed out completely. Nothing would deter him from dragging out one ladder after another 'til finally the 20 foot extension ladder seemed like it would allow him to ascend high enough into the heavens to remove the offending growth. No mistletoe is going to be allowed to suck the life out of his beloved tree! </p><p style="text-align: center;">Necessary backstory: No spring chickens living here. Much as I loved climbing trees as a child, I'm comfortable now on terra firma. Neither am I adept at catching people falling out of trees. Especially people who weigh forty pounds more than me. But the OC is nothing if not determined. Just the thought of doing it put a gleam in his eye. Ladder stretched to it's limits he ascended. </p><p style="text-align: center;">"Don't let the ladder fall backwards!"</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Like I could stop it if it had a mind to! Nevertheless I hung on tight, craning my neck, watching in trepidation. He reached out from his precarious perch and started sawing. I had visions of possible outcomes: if the ladder toppled could he make like a monkey and swing himself to safety on another branch? Would he flatten me along with himself if he came crashing down? How long would it take an ambulance to get here, and, if we were both flattened, who would call them?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Meanwhile our neighbor passed by in his car and stopped to shout up to the OC "I'll be back in thirty minutes J. Wait and I'll help you!"</p><p style="text-align: center;">"Oh I'll be done by then." replied the OC airily.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> "Or in the hospital," I thought to myself.</p><p style="text-align: center;">But he did it! Mission accomplished, he climbed safely back down to earth, happy as an astronaut returning from a mission to mars.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And then there was my Kitchenaid adventure. I was making a new recipe, Jalapeno-cheddar bread. The dough hook was doing the donkey work so I left the room, for just a moment, and didn't realize how foolish a move that was 'til I heard the crash. You guessed it. My beloved mixer danced its way to the counter's edge and jumped! I don't think it was a suicide attempt. More a reminder that you never put a baby in the bath and then leave the room. Amazingly the mixer survived with only a bent screw and a small scratch. After I picked some shaved bits of steel out of the dough I continued baking the bread. It was delicious, though by now you've probably decided to decline if invited to eat with us.</p><p style="text-align: center;">The elephant in the room of course is Russia's invasion of Ukraine. I did start a draft named "Thinking in Blue and Yellow" but then thought better of it. What could I say that would stop Putin's madness? The OC has done what he can to help his relatives who still live there. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">And these are just a few of the ways I stay too otherwise-occupied to blog. What mostly stops me from clicking 'post' on the several drafts I've started is thinking "Well, this is so nothing, so ordinary, who'd be interested!" But this past week was an exception. Just enough excitement to keep us on our toes.</div>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-61966377313858950072022-02-09T22:53:00.000-05:002022-02-09T22:53:34.031-05:00In the Still of the Night<p style="text-align: center;">We learned a lot by rote back in my childhood (the old days?) </p><p style="text-align: center;">The nuns saw it as discipline. We saw it as torture. But, like it or not, we'd read and reread the passage or poem until we could recite it without recourse to the book. And how many times have I felt, finally, grateful to those cruel nuns for forcing that bit of culture on our unwilling psyches?<u> </u>Polonius' advice to Laertes? So many pithy pieces of advice in there....</p><p style="text-align: center;"> "Give thy thoughts no tongue," and "...every man thine ear but few thy voice" or, as my Dad more prosaically put it "A closed mouth catches no flies!"</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Good to remind myself of these, even after the damage is done. I'll know better next time. I knew, even back then, as I struggled to memorize them, they were worth listening to and internalizing. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Snatches of Kubla Khan resound in my head from time to time just for the rollicking rhythm of it ,and Portia's speech on the quality of mercy - "It falleth as the gentle rain from heaven." A lot of rain hath fallen here of late, both the literal and the figurative.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I couldn't sleep last night. My hip hurt. Got up, stumbled to the bathroom in the dark, rubbed some medicinal cream on the offending part, went back to bed. The ache eased a bit, but I was still wide awake. Serves me right I thought. I prefer regular black tea but, in the evenings, usually drink herbal as it's less likely to keep me awake. But last night I yearned for real, hot, black tea, with milk and sugar of course - I am Irish after all. And between the comforting tea and various happenings of the day, my brain was going at a hundred miles an hour. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I tried breathing slowly - in for five counts, hold for five, out for five. This should bring some oxygen to the brain, I thought, but, apparently, not enough.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> "Be still, sad heart and cease repining; </p><p style="text-align: center;">Behind the clouds is the sun still shining; Thy fate is the common fate of all, </p><p style="text-align: center;">Into each life some rain must fall," </p><p style="text-align: center;">There we go with the rain again! But, Mr. Wadsworh, does it have to be a downpour? </p><p style="text-align: center;">Still wide awake. Ease, quiet as a mouse, out of bed, reach in dark for glasses, search with toes for slippers, reach overhead for book, The Handmaid's Tale, of all things - not the most cheering read - and tiptoe to the kitchen.</p><p style="text-align: center;">It's 1:45 a.m.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Through the window an eerie moon glows; inside silence, familiar shapes - chairs, table, lamps; stillness; the hum of the fridge.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Turn on light over stove; cocoa and pan from pantry; milk from fridge. The OC thinks instant should work. In the microwave. But it's the ritual I need. Every step calms.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> I need The Hot Chocolate Ceremony. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Remember "Wax on, Wax off," from The Karate Kid? Focusing on the simple steps of a simple task gets other things out of my head, at least temporarily.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Measure milk into cup. Pour it into pan. Heat. One spoon cocoa, two spoons sugar, a sprinkle each of cardamom, cinnamon, tumeric into cup. Stir. Shlurp in some warm milk. Stir again. Pour in hot milk. Stir some more. Pull stool up to stove. Open book. Sip cocoa. Read book. Listen to quiet hum of refrigerator. Nerves calm, eyes grow heavy. Clock says 2:45 a.m. Close book. Creep back to bed. Insinuate self under blankets. Yawn hugely. Close eyes.</p><div class="phPageBottom" style="box-sizing: border-box; padding: 20px 20px 0px;"><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight trouble. </span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight nuns.</span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight Shakespeare. </span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight Portia.</span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight Mr. Wadsworth.</span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight rain.</span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight moon.</span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Goodnight kitchen.</span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Hello sleep!</span></div><div class="phpdAuthor" style="box-sizing: border-box; float: left; margin-bottom: 20px; position: relative; text-align: center; width: 580px;"><span style="font-size: large;">zzzzzz!</span></div><br /></div>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-62959823277202009812022-01-31T23:02:00.001-05:002022-01-31T23:02:10.574-05:00The Arctic is Vacationing in Florida<p style="text-align: center;">" Nothing since August 14th. ~ ~ ~ time for an update to the chronicles. "</p><p style="text-align: center;">This was the terse text from Marilyn early in January. </p><p style="text-align: center;">In block capitals.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Wow, I thought. I have surely blogged since then, in my head at least? </p><p style="text-align: center;">Turns out blogging in your head doesn't quite make it to the page. Kind of like having a gym membership, does not, in and of itself, bestow a fit and slender physique. You have to actually visit the gym and maybe sweat a little. As it is now the very last day of January, I thought it might behoove me to provide an update, for Marilyn, and for anyone else who wanders over here and wonders - What has happened? Is she sick? Or, God forbid, dead?</p><p style="text-align: center;"> I'm happy to report that the grim reaper has not come for me yet, though, if our oft taken for granted warm weather does not return soon, I may yet freeze to death. I know, I know. Our recent lows would be welcomed as a heatwave in many parts of the world but it's all relative. The blood thins. The bones shiver. One promises not to complain about the heat when it, inevitably, returns. And meantime one has dug deep in the closet for the winter clothing that, mercifully, was still buried there and not off finding new life in some thrift shop. The OC, being less of a weather wimp than I, has remarked in recent days, on seeing my outfit - You look like an Eskimo! Well, welcome to my igloo. One offers thanks for pack rat tendencies. They do have their uses, Q.E.D.</p><p style="text-align: center;">~ ~ ~</p><p style="text-align: center;">So, what's to report? Since August 14th?</p><p style="text-align: center;">My major accomplishment for 2021 was starting <i>and</i> finishing, a king-sized quilt for California Girl. </p><p style="text-align: center;">The house was in disarray for months as I moved furniture aside to make floor spaces large enough to lay it out for a bird's eye view so I could piece it together correctly. It wasn't until September when I picked it up from the longarm quilter, who, by the way, did a beautiful job, that I spotted a big mistake. </p><p style="text-align: center;">But I'm not telling.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> CA Girl went on a big adventure to Europe where she fell headlong in love with Italy and threatened to never come back. Reality, however, finally kicked in and she returned in October, stopping in here to pick up her quilt. And she loves it, I'm happy to say. *</p><p style="text-align: center;">October and November saw us visiting Oregon. The OC got to play farmer and logger and general dogbody as he and YS got lots of work done. December saw holiday visits from two sons, brief but lovely, and before I had fully registered that it was Christmas already, even before I'd stowed away the decorations and vacuumed up the pine needles, here's Marilyn, calling me to order, demanding, in her inimitable way, and pronto if you please, that I get to blogging. </p><p style="text-align: center;">So that's my update. More to come. And if by chance I should fall off the wagon again, I'm sure Marilyn will rise to the occasion with another terse text. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">*Blogger, the universe, my computer or maybe a conspiracy of all three is/are refusing to allow me to add photos which is good news and bad news. Good because it means you cannot see my big mistake but bad because you cannot see the stellar job the longarm quilter did. I'll keep trying.</p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-47495153849245831172021-08-14T22:09:00.001-04:002021-08-14T22:09:38.304-04:00Gallivanting for Fabric<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2560" height="192" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCs9Uo587R9R6NXfm1x80VG3u1dG8NJ4m-THxFwg5toHXWhxG3sANB6Z0XSmWPZp9Yo5QsICoQJSNqWby9XEfd5FvERYgmhaTuoEyjDP_CTc5STapwKmSHuKy5rYCbx7spYM38Qw/s320/20141227_124952.jpg" width="320" /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div></div><p style="text-align: center;">Good morning Noreen! Are you dressed? Face on? Had your coffee? Feel like going for a spin? </p><p style="text-align: center;">Well, no. And no. Not yet....how soon?...where to? Puzzlement leaked through the phone. What was I up to?</p><p style="text-align: center;">It sometimes takes coaxing to get her out of her house. I know it's good for her to get out and, after she's been persuaded, she does too.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I need more border fabric, I told her. Nine yards - no kidding, <i> nine yards - </i>of backing. This quilt will cover a football field. Sale today at Nana's. How soon can you be ready?</p><p style="text-align: center;">She was still arguing with herself when I got there. Did she feel well enough to go gallivanting? Though still vacillating, she was dressed, spiffed and caffeinated. I took that as a yes and off we went.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Noreen is almost a decade older than me (and I'm getting up there!) She had a stroke a few years ago that put an end to her dancing days but she still has all her marbles, stays up with the latest in politics, world news and health care. Me? I'd rather hide under a bush, or in a quilt shop (as we were about to do) and hope that the politicians all sink into the oceans they don't seem to give a rat's hind quarters about and choke on all the plastic accumulating there.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Nana's was humming. Their sale was a fiftheenth anniversary celebration of their opening. It's a small, cozy quilt shop and I settled in to do some vacillating of my own. One of the biggest challenges in quilting, for me, is choosing the fabric. Especially when there is so much to choose from. But, miraculously, I found what I wanted in less than ten minutes. The quilt in question is in Kaffe Fassett fabrics which break all the rules I learned when first I started to quilt. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="296" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi66BEQCv9lxULYA8AyFNIh_qekm_RGLiXjdQA1qq8LwlLDb7OVyrRgsKBH7K-51Q1GjXAGOdpheEGF-sh_9_C-i9VaqQzi-Rvv04XHV9z3sApferqNjOP4vWwaQTapdnebizh7OQ/w223-h296/20210811_082856.jpg" width="223" /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">Light, medium and dark for starters. KF designs blithely ignore that one. Small, overall designs (think calico) was another. KF specialises in big, splashy florals. Suffice to say I'd been intimidated even contemplating such a quilt. But now I was one furlong from the finish line. No more vacillating. Nine yards please.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM4G9H7gNICwW1VRGB6bI2-OtbuXfHbroZlVkVPCuJL2XALJ46Z54EI2MSOkRL2-3F2ts9QaPd_TZpuDiRbtg7n8Yvufu2TztU5-jTmmcoK4mx5RWeWlCg_GE6RBD-zEzop1eSXg/s2048/20210812_112716+%25281%2529.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM4G9H7gNICwW1VRGB6bI2-OtbuXfHbroZlVkVPCuJL2XALJ46Z54EI2MSOkRL2-3F2ts9QaPd_TZpuDiRbtg7n8Yvufu2TztU5-jTmmcoK4mx5RWeWlCg_GE6RBD-zEzop1eSXg/s320/20210812_112716+%25281%2529.jpg" width="240" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">That's it, behind pieces of the KF.<br />It should calm things down</td></tr></tbody></table><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2R4O9TNZWuN6q2ox6jq8BLdun5owRXav7ywCfGZbQ06um6lpnl0tPXhoQT9HVgROpeDdGV_0yAJwQt4SfctoFQTa_uBDChXVWPbe2DvdLTaZo7soPzsTpxlSmySP6YB8JCE4Acw/s2048/20210812_130152.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2R4O9TNZWuN6q2ox6jq8BLdun5owRXav7ywCfGZbQ06um6lpnl0tPXhoQT9HVgROpeDdGV_0yAJwQt4SfctoFQTa_uBDChXVWPbe2DvdLTaZo7soPzsTpxlSmySP6YB8JCE4Acw/s320/20210812_130152.jpg" width="240" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Spotted in the restroom<br />Can you read the sign?</td></tr></tbody></table><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">Oh, I don't know if there's that much here, said the assistant, eyeing the bolt doubtfully. But I had counted folds and felt confident. Turns out there was eight and three quarters. I'll make it work!</p><p style="text-align: center;">Onwards to Quilted Twins for the yard and a half I needed for my last two borders. They were opening at one o'clock. We got there at twelve thirty and thought we'd have to kill half an hour - until we saw a light inside and "Open" on the door. The quilt gods were smiling on us. We had the store to ourselves - a bonus for Noreen - not having to navigate around crowds of intent fabric shoppers and risk falling. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Because they weren't busy yet we even chatted with Rachael, the woman who started the store with her twin sister, </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmnnr2p8HD1KzzJqal4HzJq1RLceYzxC5uoFLAm3WgvCzyFYTd1xn2oIPVzpyJPTtgQ2eHBz9u663AHaqzhBIfYHrHgPuJqGv_fzqPlcsLWJMfyaZX8TOODgzWTvWlC3SSKDoc9A/s2048/20210812_123946+%25281%2529.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmnnr2p8HD1KzzJqal4HzJq1RLceYzxC5uoFLAm3WgvCzyFYTd1xn2oIPVzpyJPTtgQ2eHBz9u663AHaqzhBIfYHrHgPuJqGv_fzqPlcsLWJMfyaZX8TOODgzWTvWlC3SSKDoc9A/s320/20210812_123946+%25281%2529.jpg" width="320" /></a></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">She told us how the shop got started. Her sister was in Poland with her missionary husband. While the husband preached the gospel Becky saw the need for warm blankets in the freezing winters there and decided to make quilts. She asked Rachel, her twin, to send her fabric. Rachael's children were grown, she had the time, so she started hunting. And found that, though not a quilter herself, she loved selecting fabrics. Soon she had more fabric than even her sister could use so she started selling it on line. Some of her customers begged to be allowed to come and select fabrics in person. The rest is history. Quilted Twins is only open a few days a week. The other days Rachel and her staff are kept busy filling orders on line. And with Covid, anyone with half an inclination to quilt has moved into hundred percent mode so they stay busy.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I was elated. Not only had I found backing fabric that would work to calm my KF quilt, I'd got the last piece on the bolt of my border fabric. Noreen used to make beautiful quilts when first I knew her. She doesn't have the energy for it much anymore. But she did get fabric to make a baby quilt for her soon-to-be-born first great-grandchild. We were both happy as larks, but exhausted from spending all that money. </p><p style="text-align: center;">And hungry.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-b-s6TRTgCvBdME_DYlzawKuvGdctj6q7re6gA7C4bTvGFzLP2g9RvNCSDmXMuKfd3ytPf-kjfEPY9n-iW3uDypptG-JR1fv-F-_2YwUJk8nPoLt0vxcL_KxZJ40ZbQaoUREa2A/s2048/20210812_142921.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-b-s6TRTgCvBdME_DYlzawKuvGdctj6q7re6gA7C4bTvGFzLP2g9RvNCSDmXMuKfd3ytPf-kjfEPY9n-iW3uDypptG-JR1fv-F-_2YwUJk8nPoLt0vxcL_KxZJ40ZbQaoUREa2A/s320/20210812_142921.jpg" width="320" /></a></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">Off to The Green Door for a delicious lunch. Then home again, home again, jiggedy jig. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I called Noreen again this morning. She's still kicking. She took a nap when I dropped her off and is feeling no ill effects. It's good to have friends to go gallivanting with.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhq8Tp6G5CMQRbe1tCyFGYiC_qM3OjwvyyX4oJ_BpfELwCR09upno4vsmqRnGQjNh-QqGCWcFPqZ6ja4H63nYf_YKtk61vjnQkxuhxs4w3w0JNVAGwulW8vzKz6Zdoa7bPygtB62g/s320/IMG_0691.JPG" width="320" /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-43080777595941720712021-08-07T11:29:00.002-04:002021-08-07T11:45:02.463-04:00One of Nature's Gentlemen<p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfHXe4xh0HQ16s9HqCB2tRoZ1Msq8c4qc9R5-XVicu7gEvHoF4J8hB_lMgDS8rc9xzeuarG8xY5YzTXc6mMAY0xvaI-twYudj3xnzOHwNW135VkaKtovIrobfyxrvVorGoTLC_3g/s1671/dad%2526me.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1671" data-original-width="1080" height="423" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfHXe4xh0HQ16s9HqCB2tRoZ1Msq8c4qc9R5-XVicu7gEvHoF4J8hB_lMgDS8rc9xzeuarG8xY5YzTXc6mMAY0xvaI-twYudj3xnzOHwNW135VkaKtovIrobfyxrvVorGoTLC_3g/w274-h423/dad%2526me.jpg" width="274" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"> I run to answer the telephone which hangs on the wall between the kitchen and dining room. The desert sunshine streams through the open windows while the yellow curtains billow gently in the breeze. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Life is good. We're young, our beautiful baby girl is down for her nap. Our first child - a black Labrador named Suzy, is curled up on the grass outside, chasing rabbits through doggy dreams. We're on the OC's first AF assignment in the middle of the Mojave dessert. When first we arrived here I thought we'd come to the ends of the earth, but now it's the birthplace of our firstborn, we live in a house on a tree -lined street with a fenced-in garden, our neighbors are all friendly, young like us, starting out. This is how life is supposed to go, right? </p><p style="text-align: center;">But I was only playing at being a grownup. When my mum's voice came crackling down the line from the other side of the planet, my world crumbled. The sun still streamed in through the window, the curtains still billowed in the breeze, Suzy yawned and stretched in the grass outside, stood up, circled a few times for a more comfortable dreaming position, then settled back down. Mere seconds had passed but my life, in those few seconds, was changed forever. My dad, my beloved dad whom I adored, was in the hospital, about to have surgery for a tumor on his brain. The outlook was bleak. Life was a tragedy and I was a four year old.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Marilyn, a woman who lived across the street from us, stepped into the breach. Our husbands worked together, she had a daughter the same age as ours and two other children, but I hardly knew her. Nevertheless she took command of the situation. Our little girl, barely eighteen months old, had no passport. No worries, said Marilyn. No arguments, said Marilyn. Go see your dad, said Marilyn. I'll take E every morning while J goes to work. He can have her back in the evenings. Everything will be fine here. Go see your dad. </p><p style="text-align: center;">And so I went and sat with my dad. I was glad to be with him but wondered how things were going back in the desert. The OC had grown up with European immigrant parents. Men did not cook; men did not change diapers; men certainly didn't wash those diapers or any other clothing for that matter. That was women's work. Would my daughter be scarred for life without even the benefit of ever meeting her grandad? </p><p style="text-align: center;">The OC meanwhile, applied for a passport for her. My father-in-law (referred to in older posts as The Carpathian Prince) pulled all the strings he could find, both to expedite the passport and get me back to California without going bankrupt. Everything fell into place. My dad was stable for now so I flew home. Miraculously E had survived. In fact she didn't like me anymore! When I tried to give her a bath my first night back, she howled for her daddy. Turns out he'd risen to the challenge with help from Marilyn. He was chuffed that E was now "Daddy's girl."</p><p style="text-align: center;">In a few days she forgave me and we flew back to Ireland. Now two of us sat with my dad. As a child, I used to tell anyone who'd listen that "my Daddy will be charmed with me." Now he was charmed with his granddaughter. But he was getting weaker every day. The operation had removed some of the tumor but couldn't reach it all. It was growing again. And fast. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I was with him when he died. He was smiling and pointing at the ceiling, but I couldn't understand why. Then I remembered how he had told me that his mother, my grandmother, had done something similar. Our Lady was coming for her, she said. And now she was coming for him.</p><p style="text-align: center;">My heart broke that day and it never completely healed. I know that death is part of life, something we all have to face sooner or later. I wish he could have faced it later. He was fifty six. My children never had the pleasure of meeting and knowing him. He was, as so many people said to us at his funeral, one of Nature's gentlemen.</p><p style="text-align: center;">There was never any love lost between The Carpathian Prince and me. At best, we tolerated each other, but I will always be grateful that he moved heaven and earth to get me home that time.</p><p style="text-align: center;">That was forty seven years ago. Marilyn and I are still in touch on a weekly basis. Nobody could ask for a better friend.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOqxZcMuOp8sk8zE0z5IiqWLS3quzf1jOGbD-3stLAxzm-83cuL0oZNObzhosH6ITDXP0rSTvsfOqt-j3pCimmYrtFxyV30yDAkbihY7dbV2DJqic3YDMi4YQTCxiFqMKuHkLuGA/s1440/marilyn%2526me.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1440" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOqxZcMuOp8sk8zE0z5IiqWLS3quzf1jOGbD-3stLAxzm-83cuL0oZNObzhosH6ITDXP0rSTvsfOqt-j3pCimmYrtFxyV30yDAkbihY7dbV2DJqic3YDMi4YQTCxiFqMKuHkLuGA/s320/marilyn%2526me.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">We no longer live in California,</p><p style="text-align: center;">and Suzy long ago went to doggy heaven.</p><p style="text-align: center;">E survived, is all grown up, married with two teenage boys of her own. She replaced her toddlerhood best friend, Suzy, with Marty. She and Marty communicate in Schnauzer-speak, a language unique in that each speaker speaks with a pronounced lisp. Everyone needs a doggy friend!</p><p style="text-align: center;">Our phones are in our pockets now but when they ring, I still, sometimes, get a little tremor of dread, remembering that day in California and the breeze through the yellow-curtained windows.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-66592932643365883772021-07-22T23:17:00.000-04:002021-07-22T23:17:14.568-04:00Plodding Ever Onward<p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"> Sitting on the front porch Sunday morning, it was a treat to see blue skies again after a few grey, rain-sodden weeks. In spite of dire warnings from the weathermen, there was no hurricane, no awful flooding such as Europe has seen. And now China. Is there anyone left who still thinks climate change is not at least a partial cause of all this? We were relieved to hear that our German friends, H&D, were not affected by the flooding but it is heartbreaking to hear of all the people who were, who have lost their loved ones, their homes, everything. Here in the U.S. temperatures are heating up again out west and we're hoping like mad that we won't have a repeat of last year's fires. </p><p style="text-align: center;">But for now, on the porch, all was peaceful. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiI8JoNjGTgNkkWBJJtZon_fIPdoW8KB2KbtDYjzCyIEo5Xfa4DO7zShdXGkQkJnl59vvOWXt3qZwOlT9uolb1ql2m-wBkDN4P8jRNZ_cpMc6GAdmv2RvbsyFtq7yCdZv1M4ZSzrQ/s1080/tiny+yellow+orchid.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiI8JoNjGTgNkkWBJJtZon_fIPdoW8KB2KbtDYjzCyIEo5Xfa4DO7zShdXGkQkJnl59vvOWXt3qZwOlT9uolb1ql2m-wBkDN4P8jRNZ_cpMc6GAdmv2RvbsyFtq7yCdZv1M4ZSzrQ/s320/tiny+yellow+orchid.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">This tiny orchid bloomed last week. It's been with us for at least five years and has never bloomed before which goes to show you should never give up on an orchid, no matter how dead, lifeless or gone it looks. There's likely to still be life lurking deep within, just waiting to reward those with patience to wait...and wait...and wait!</div><p style="text-align: center;">A movement catches my eye. I have visitors.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwQ-Q5Wv8xzPvrnKFaxJfbzJ45qNh9ttu2r52e0EE9FrViMGRBX5oFZFP-BTAzhgmQlZ9IwrDcClaK1ujYnEfFZkskfAuSqVQzZx2Fqisc2RfPnWtzHHN9SWU2vTYfAe5rClKL4w/s1080/sandhillcrane.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="810" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwQ-Q5Wv8xzPvrnKFaxJfbzJ45qNh9ttu2r52e0EE9FrViMGRBX5oFZFP-BTAzhgmQlZ9IwrDcClaK1ujYnEfFZkskfAuSqVQzZx2Fqisc2RfPnWtzHHN9SWU2vTYfAe5rClKL4w/s320/sandhillcrane.jpg" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">(This seems to be either mama or papa. I had pics of all three but can only seem to load this one. Such is the life of the technologically challenged.)</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Three sand hill cranes, busy foraging for breakfast in the grass out front. Beyond the birds, I see our neighbor, D, standing in his driveway, watching his son, T, glumly plodding along behind a lawn mower. D recently came to the conclusion that it was foolish to be paying a landscape company to mow his lawn when he had an able-bodied, if a mite too chubby, teenager on the premises. I chuckled to see that the "Make a Man out of T" program had begun. An all round win-win situation - D gets his grass cut, T sweats a little, loses a few pounds, takes a few grudging steps towards manhood. Except I don't think T sees it quite in that light. At least not yet. Maybe in a few years.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Meanwhile, back to the birds. I watch with interest as they continue their bug search. The two adults are going at it with gusto, vigorously wresting bugs from the soil with their long beaks, unfazed by the proximity of a mere human. The third, a scrawny teenager (no red feathers on his head yet), is just standing around, looking dejected, making no effort to find food. I wonder if he is sick? Or maybe sulking because mama and papa are not feeding him but acting like he's a big boy now and should find his own breakfast? Trying to make a man out of him?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Speaking of manhood, a condition that seems to have fallen on hard times, we have a couple of grandsons on the brink of it this month, born within a few days of each other seventeen years ago. Both, unfortunately, living in other states, but we had dinner with one last week when he was here on a visit.....</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIFevTqQvSN-09QNRj4Cnn-m5Z6qMR5DF7U-rgY9atvkvIDI7qgF-CS0hJYafAouX0sUxLoeo0TdqWMFIxAvt_Rqgy21whtRSpciqNXtHBc4_0HmsKkxgL2F2BwVQwNOfl6MNPZw/s1080/Dorje.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="810" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIFevTqQvSN-09QNRj4Cnn-m5Z6qMR5DF7U-rgY9atvkvIDI7qgF-CS0hJYafAouX0sUxLoeo0TdqWMFIxAvt_Rqgy21whtRSpciqNXtHBc4_0HmsKkxgL2F2BwVQwNOfl6MNPZw/s320/Dorje.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">..and spoke to the other by phone on his birthday. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqpdZxbAA5WR8YUccDhEVXo1XyZYWzxw_4YMHrr1gxyJa3RONrqpnxYvKnNCDJVq5-xleHTPM-Pn7z2A0rqP-FjnVaxbY3209GKkPgLtInM7_f5COLiV39VI9FQKE_S60raBD80A/s531/bennettcropped.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="531" data-original-width="334" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqpdZxbAA5WR8YUccDhEVXo1XyZYWzxw_4YMHrr1gxyJa3RONrqpnxYvKnNCDJVq5-xleHTPM-Pn7z2A0rqP-FjnVaxbY3209GKkPgLtInM7_f5COLiV39VI9FQKE_S60raBD80A/s320/bennettcropped.jpg" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">Sweet boys. Maybe in their lifetimes manhood will become popular again.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Where does the time go? I ask myself this so often I bore myself. And up from some recess in my head comes a quote - "For life moves not backward, nor tarries with yesterday."</p><p style="text-align: center;">And so we plod ever onward, hoping that those just on the cusp of adulthood will be equal to the job of</p><p style="text-align: center;">cleaning up the mess we seem to be leaving them.</p><p style="text-align: center;">At least those handsome boys are smiling. If we all make a concerted effort to do our bit for the environment maybe they'll have reason to continue to do so.</p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-54714350286849155212021-06-29T12:09:00.001-04:002021-06-29T12:09:57.558-04:00Dream a Little Dream<p style="text-align: center;">Earlier this morning:</p><p style="text-align: center;"> We were going on a trip. The kids were all packed and ready, the OC too. I was not. I said I'd follow along after them so they left for the airport and I continued packing. I was having trouble getting everything into my suitcase. The problem was made more challenging by my efforts to carefully squeeze a large pizza box in between my clothes. A pizza box, you might well ask? Yes, a pizza box containing, of all things, a fresh, still hot pizza. The challenge seemed to be to get it in there without squeezing any tomato sauce out onto the clothes I'd packed around it. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnXpO2rmXGl8U05JO40_3XmYFRtWbuLjbZj5IbgP9CKGKhXU9uasQSgxgpfILYUs1ad9-cVFj4VVNbAY0Ej1b4eiaFPNQgsxUDKtx3HiE5nhH0q1dx4Xow7N-Yv1N4ebvbBV6WPg/s1080/pizza+box.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnXpO2rmXGl8U05JO40_3XmYFRtWbuLjbZj5IbgP9CKGKhXU9uasQSgxgpfILYUs1ad9-cVFj4VVNbAY0Ej1b4eiaFPNQgsxUDKtx3HiE5nhH0q1dx4Xow7N-Yv1N4ebvbBV6WPg/s320/pizza+box.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">You're probably holding your breath, on the edge of your seat, wondering if I got to the airport on time and if so, if I got to our destination on time, and if so, was the pizza still edible?</p><p style="text-align: center;">I have to disappoint you. I woke up before I even got to the airport.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">Last week:</p><p style="text-align: center;">We (not sure who "we" are) were in some kind of vehicle with wheels, riding along at speed on a hard, sandy beach. The wind in our hair, the salty spray stinging our eyes, it felt exhilarating. We came around a headland and suddenly the beach was a lot more watery. The hard sand was now behind us, but still our vehicle continued skimming over the water which had a look of mottled glass, the kind people use where they need light but also privacy. There were opaque circles and blobby shapes on it surrounded by foamy bits and areas of clear water. We were still going in our original direction, parallel, more or less, with the shore. We could see an area closer to shore that had hard packed sand like we'd been on earlier. We decided we should swing around and head back towards it. Easier said than done. The current carrying us along was too swift to drastically change direction. But then we came to an area where the beach swung out towards us and we were able to guide our vehicle there and yeah! Succeeded in getting onto hard sand again. There was a street off to our left so we turned onto it and found ourselves in a picturesque Belgian village. How did I know that? The street signs were in Flemish. I have a shaky, nodding acquaintance with Flemish from the few years we lived in Belgium, though I would certainly flounder if required to speak it. I would have liked to have stayed and explored a bit but that was the point at which I woke up.</p><p style="text-align: center;">This is the only life I have, the only one I expect to have, but these crazy, irrational dreams make me feel like a stranger in my own head. If anyone has a right to know what's going on in there shouldn't it be me? But as soon as I twitch an eyelid, or move a minor muscle, the Killer of Dreams snatches them away and I'm left trying to make sense of the shattered fragments. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Maybe it's another fallout from the pandemic. Maybe sleeping life is compensating for the ordinariness of waking life - jazzing things up a bit.</p><p style="text-align: center;">It does add a tantalizing element of anticipation to falling asleep - I never know what kind of wild and crazy adventures await as soon as I turn out the light and close my eyes. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Of course, another possibility is that I'm just nuts</p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-15960993997495640802021-06-18T13:12:00.003-04:002021-06-18T13:12:51.721-04:00The Pusillanimity of it All<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p style="text-align: center;">A recent post by <a href="http://agingfemalebabyboomer.blogspot.com/." target="_blank">Colette</a> had me nodding my head. I knew what she was talking about. Nothing going on here, nothing to see, nothing to write about - but hey - wait a minute! Do I still have a pulse? Is my head constantly teeming with thoughts and words? And how does that translate into such inertia that I've "nothing to say"? That was the gist of one comment on her post. <a href="https://www.blogger.com/profile/16828395545197001637" target="_blank">Roderick Robinson's</a> arrow hit the mark. It pierced my inertia too. It turns out I have a lot to say but am timid about saying it. Will people fall out of their chairs with the boredom of it all? Will they fall asleep? Will my blog be cancelled? Just kidding. We're not on youtube, nobody cares. There is so much angst in the world right now, so much division, so much an attitude of "if you're not with me you're against me" in matters of huge import to humanity, it's tempting to decide that the simple routines of my days and my ordinary thoughts will just bring on the yawns.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNs6fTD434ChUgmoN2sut1tXv14IElXUPmsT6cwm14tQW0VA6F-8KxZ3GDHecpeRLVHjVxVYtuOetJoC8v-MfwMrL8bhb61oEqbvPR7WFN1CHgikZxXQALCwC3gnn2X6SAwx1wjA/s1080/Tooke.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNs6fTD434ChUgmoN2sut1tXv14IElXUPmsT6cwm14tQW0VA6F-8KxZ3GDHecpeRLVHjVxVYtuOetJoC8v-MfwMrL8bhb61oEqbvPR7WFN1CHgikZxXQALCwC3gnn2X6SAwx1wjA/s320/Tooke.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><p style="text-align: center;">But. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I am, once again, reading <a href="The Listening Path" target="_blank">Julia Cameron's</a> efforts to beat those of us with writerly ambitions but lazy attitudes into the discipline of what she calls "morning pages." I've been at it a week or too, hit or miss. I didn't exactly 'fall out of bed directly onto the page' this morning but I did hie me to the park behind us as soon as I was dressed, even remembering, in my uncaffeinated state, to take the key that would open the gate, my fence scaling days being far behind me.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And what a morning. The park so peaceful, especially as "peace comes dropping slow" these days. Nature is tending to business, unbothered by the latest political and covid outrages from the media. Already warm, the air oozing moisture, the sun wrestling its way through the haze, the lazy overhead drone of an airplane, the nearby drone of dragonflies. There's a large bird in the reeds out a ways from the dock where I'm sitting - heron? Wood stork? </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2hKy_OIqKm8AGAkJEsIPGcaq2ruKxfhv0U1LbnBw9-TcJkYE6S-BdE3tO7ULiem45fGEKlLhXVFVqc_gvDOkoat_TUcJt9m6ytzMz2gbNMXd-Sz7uYkYiRSz89lLn3iTbK1prsA/s1080/stork.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="810" height="279" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2hKy_OIqKm8AGAkJEsIPGcaq2ruKxfhv0U1LbnBw9-TcJkYE6S-BdE3tO7ULiem45fGEKlLhXVFVqc_gvDOkoat_TUcJt9m6ytzMz2gbNMXd-Sz7uYkYiRSz89lLn3iTbK1prsA/w402-h279/stork.jpg" width="402" /></a></p><br /><p style="text-align: center;">And then a smaller one shows up - a blue heron ? I wait, hoping Blue will come closer for a better shot but soon realize how impatient I am. If it happens, it'll be in his time, not mine. Half an hour later the larger bird is still standing in the reeds. Maybe this is his morning meditation time? Wisely he lets his breakfast come to him while young Blue flaps about, chasing his. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKQE2gNLE_NTztl-tBA9sijDbiQOtv9ZdwViE1Enrc3yGoQfOzpR3XQvGkUNBIN8psl7g6p0DxiO9mkf1v3eBHGMcOQtjSlWvXDWve7Kuiu-J98ySTo1DBCeQ-wMYjBJjBU8SX0A/s1080/heronwingsout.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="810" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKQE2gNLE_NTztl-tBA9sijDbiQOtv9ZdwViE1Enrc3yGoQfOzpR3XQvGkUNBIN8psl7g6p0DxiO9mkf1v3eBHGMcOQtjSlWvXDWve7Kuiu-J98ySTo1DBCeQ-wMYjBJjBU8SX0A/s320/heronwingsout.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgecZYtm5sFAVawK0ugF_XPxOShG6kElSwPZ2j81ptWOw2OMRQkmgMOgHRb7gg5mfxdzA4S4KSO0C0Jhnn5UCSmxBIFxg_0_4nWDtxRPLkCh1HoMsb6kAl8453Ab-qu9IYfYkmasA/s1080/wingsout2.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="810" height="228" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgecZYtm5sFAVawK0ugF_XPxOShG6kElSwPZ2j81ptWOw2OMRQkmgMOgHRb7gg5mfxdzA4S4KSO0C0Jhnn5UCSmxBIFxg_0_4nWDtxRPLkCh1HoMsb6kAl8453Ab-qu9IYfYkmasA/w320-h228/wingsout2.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">The lake looks so calm but don't be fooled. Under the surface and that carpet of waterlilies it seethes with life: tiny fishes, bigger fishes, frogs - I hear them singing, turtles - I hear the occasional splash.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> And snakes. Like this fellow.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxxtZg-R8JmqAEkhE1tUC_7hWl8DOVMdj4jMPB4hsWeJsy4y3pN9WUO3piaCIuWP_HHobEfRkQVr1N0tqRNKZY3y6_WRzkcT6_oO9rZW1HhnXQ2xQ1DMOTKr186i4SimSt7HbE1g/s1080/snake3.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxxtZg-R8JmqAEkhE1tUC_7hWl8DOVMdj4jMPB4hsWeJsy4y3pN9WUO3piaCIuWP_HHobEfRkQVr1N0tqRNKZY3y6_WRzkcT6_oO9rZW1HhnXQ2xQ1DMOTKr186i4SimSt7HbE1g/s320/snake3.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">There have even been sightings of alligators, reason enough not to go wading out in search of a waterlily close-up! In the interests of keeping my limbs I content myself with this one, nestled up against the dock. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBN9yClNou5WOjUpgUBeOkG_sPzEu4ZcLZ_sGIhJEq5hAKvcPQ1wNqwBU4g8xUixgZrJDZ7jT-rCzCu8aq3AVbrKu5mPXrHayJDwF7vXATsx1U38vbqd4psNN-BWFQQ9DIIU9e1w/s1080/waterlily.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBN9yClNou5WOjUpgUBeOkG_sPzEu4ZcLZ_sGIhJEq5hAKvcPQ1wNqwBU4g8xUixgZrJDZ7jT-rCzCu8aq3AVbrKu5mPXrHayJDwF7vXATsx1U38vbqd4psNN-BWFQQ9DIIU9e1w/s320/waterlily.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">And yet I know, as idyllic as the scene before me appears, tooth and claw are the order of the day. Should I weep for the fishes gobbled by those herons? Or respect the fact that here, pusillanimity has no place? </p><p style="text-align: center;">At last, his meditation and breakfast done, the stork departs on wide, lazy wings. I could sit here all day absorbing tranquility through my pores, but my bladder, as usual, has other ideas. I unfold my bones and head for home, emboldened to mine that teeming, incoherent stream of thoughts and words that whirl dervishly through my brain and write something, anything, with more courage.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Thank you Colette, and thank you Mr. Robinson for the kick in the pants.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br />mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-61263979035543031102021-05-17T23:15:00.004-04:002021-05-18T14:37:23.397-04:00"Neither Snow nor Rain nor Heat nor Gloom of Night...."<p style="text-align: center;"> </p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: center;">Miracles happen. </span></p><p><span style="text-align: center;"><br /></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgW5nmZCPwkg8d3yc6enhhyphenhyphenOTM4kyZNjb_BSVQxDq95jqwf2SCqrL3PaAmSPXs4rB97BpEBHrM46_ma6fMWf8E7d4YxT5Ge7IgeFXN4fq-JLls-EmWrBQE7fdL-NT1KE-hohpV7tw/s2048/Liamsquilt.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgW5nmZCPwkg8d3yc6enhhyphenhyphenOTM4kyZNjb_BSVQxDq95jqwf2SCqrL3PaAmSPXs4rB97BpEBHrM46_ma6fMWf8E7d4YxT5Ge7IgeFXN4fq-JLls-EmWrBQE7fdL-NT1KE-hohpV7tw/s320/Liamsquilt.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"><br />Proof? I finished this quilt, for this beautiful boy,</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtdqZi0J8jUlVuRgQIjD-xRWB9QkJ2F437PzxQWX3ZfyCox7P9Achl0n0JF0T1bQ_UIlGRK6ng3FsCCl9hV9Mm6G71lghR4EMKO_NiBw1rFOsR98dGMIRAdYPaXhCYtJgqmWtPkw/s1600/Liam.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtdqZi0J8jUlVuRgQIjD-xRWB9QkJ2F437PzxQWX3ZfyCox7P9Achl0n0JF0T1bQ_UIlGRK6ng3FsCCl9hV9Mm6G71lghR4EMKO_NiBw1rFOsR98dGMIRAdYPaXhCYtJgqmWtPkw/s320/Liam.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">and this doll quilt for his big (4 yr. old) sister</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidrYxvJYNIlnbsBu3CD4TVKhy19ek8RCtwkr54x-bvrdiFmscVXwxsTQJltErWxJpViSQBTALUC6ZS6lNhC5j8Geu58lVHY1O0aQbyGrr0ujZH9AxpHsMen05d8S3eaSkhME8vWg/s2048/20210505_183929_01.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidrYxvJYNIlnbsBu3CD4TVKhy19ek8RCtwkr54x-bvrdiFmscVXwxsTQJltErWxJpViSQBTALUC6ZS6lNhC5j8Geu58lVHY1O0aQbyGrr0ujZH9AxpHsMen05d8S3eaSkhME8vWg/s320/20210505_183929_01.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"> in record time. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Started in March, finished last week. My usual modus operandi, on hearing of an imminent addition to the family tree, is somewhat more drawn out. There are many steps involved. There's the thinking, the planning, the fabric selection, the head scratching, the chin stroking, the self doubt and, always, mid-plot plan changes. And, of course, procrastination. </p><p style="text-align: center;">All of this takes time, often running into years. The child will usually have advanced to the crawling stage, if not the wobbly walking stage, if not the enrollment in kindergarten stage (but so far not to the college application stage) before they receive their quilt. I love every stitch of it, not least for the serenity the making of it induces. But, in my hands at least, it is not a speedy process.</p><p style="text-align: center;">What prompted the speed, you might wonder, the departure from the usual MO, this time around?</p><p style="text-align: center;">It may be the deafening <b>"Tick-Tock, Tick Tock"</b> that gets louder each year in spite of frequent offers in the mail to "come on down" for the best hearing aid deals in town. And the pandemic, of course, has made us all painfully aware, if we were ignoring the fact previously, that - newsflash - we're all gonna die! And what will happen to all this fabric if my number's up too soon? My shade will wander, disconsolate, in the underworld, finding no rest, 'cause I didn't sew faster when I could have.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Yes. I finished the quilt. And have been in danger ever since of hurting myself, so heartily have I been slapping myself on the back. I took it to the post office a few days ago.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidFCp1lVLBiQ0vqForRXc80aQ-WfUzDV5XrHpDBRYUjaRmhUuOYpYAfkIQ9yq67BPlp-wLe07FDGBJOgA_9AGSNfBGtsSQwS4MKD-zyb8LMZyMEvXhPAgzVNU03C9Q83knsvVOmA/s2048/20210514_110051.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidFCp1lVLBiQ0vqForRXc80aQ-WfUzDV5XrHpDBRYUjaRmhUuOYpYAfkIQ9yq67BPlp-wLe07FDGBJOgA_9AGSNfBGtsSQwS4MKD-zyb8LMZyMEvXhPAgzVNU03C9Q83knsvVOmA/s320/20210514_110051.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">But aye, there's the rub. Will it ever get to London?</p><p style="text-align: center;">***</p><p style="text-align: center;">In early March I flew to Oregon. The OC dropped me off at the airport. I checked in and made my way to the gate. An uneasy feeling came over me as I waited to board. I couldn't pinpoint what was causing it until, like a missile landing in my brain, it hit me - I'd forgotten my charger. Not only that. A frantic search of my backpack confirmed I'd also forgotten my phone. Both of them safely plugged in at home so they'd be fully charged.... in time for me to swan off to the airport without them. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Not so long ago (well, at least in my lifetime) phones were implements attached by cords to walls in our homes for the purpose of communicating with other humans. I have travelled, phoneless, many times in my life. The world would not end because of this. It would just be inconvenient.</p><p style="text-align: center;">The OC express mailed phone and charger to Oregon the next day, Saturday, with assurances from P.O. personnel that, no worries, it would reach me by Monday.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Monday came, no phone.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Tuesday came, no phone.</p><p style="text-align: center;">A week passed, no phone</p><p style="text-align: center;">Two weeks passed, no phone.</p><p style="text-align: center;">The OC was irritated. He spoke to the Post Office. They were as bewildered as we were. Assured the OC it <i>should</i> be there. It <i>must</i> be there. Except that it wasn't. And continued not to be, not to show up on any tracking for three weeks.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I was learning to live without it. After all, I had in the past. But the OC kept saying I should go buy a new one. My old phone had been just fine. I had reached a level of comfort in using it that I was sure I would not have with a new fangled device. Who knew? It might still show up, though that possibility was fading with each passing week.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I bought a phone. At ridiculous expense, and the very next day my wandering phone showed up -</p><p style="text-align: center;">in GUAM.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Get your head around that.</p><p style="text-align: center;">A few days later it had progressed to Hawaii. I wouldn't have minded if I'd been along for the trip. Who'd object to finding themselves suddenly in Hawaii?</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Not me. But my phone had gone on a Hawaiian vacation without me. Very inconsiderate.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Eventually, none the worse for wear, it arrived at my son's home, where it had been sent in the first place.</p><p style="text-align: center;">***</p><p style="text-align: center;">So yes, my faith in the P. O. is at a low ebb. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Checked tracking today. It arrived in Miami. That's a good start, in the right direction. At least it won't go to Guam. But, any bets on Istanbul? </div><p style="text-align: center;">Only time will tell.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-73607270562854585762021-05-01T16:48:00.003-04:002021-05-02T18:07:45.667-04:00Death by Soda Bread<p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicmPjnPj-oXRLQSGznNLXAUhCmw28TDKxiTvCG70ZWcplODfL3NLmvKJWNFQI2gMcNhnLllPO_vXCsFmsh_vj72fQNsw5o9Us3xcSMZPuR6ZjAxCAzCI57iURISOJ3tR5jJTSMyw/s1080/soda+bread.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicmPjnPj-oXRLQSGznNLXAUhCmw28TDKxiTvCG70ZWcplODfL3NLmvKJWNFQI2gMcNhnLllPO_vXCsFmsh_vj72fQNsw5o9Us3xcSMZPuR6ZjAxCAzCI57iURISOJ3tR5jJTSMyw/s320/soda+bread.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"> What made so many of us turn to baking when the earth wobbled on its axis last year? Were we afraid that the only way we'd be 'given our daily bread' was if we learned to make it ourselves? Whatever the reason, it's kind of cliched by now. If you can bear it, herewith - one more tale of baking struggles.</p><p style="text-align: center;">When I was growing up, Francis the Breadman arrived o n our street, every evening, in the bakery van. My mother would send me out with money and instructions for which kind of loaf she wanted. I can still see friendly Francis in his green bakery coat, his curly head disappearing into the back of the van and reappearing as he pulled out a tray of fresh loaves. Most of all, I can still smell the heady aroma of those loaves. My favorite was the cottage loaf. I'm salivating just remembering it.</p><p style="text-align: center;">But, we didn't get bread from Francis every evening. My mother would often bake her own but never with yeast. She'd grown up on my grandmother's soda bread out on the farm, so that was her go-to recipe. Breakfast for us, on school days, was often a big bowl of porridge followed by thick slices of soda bread slathered with butter, washed down with mugs of hot, sweet, milky tea. After that, no matter what challenges the day ahead brought, we were prepared to do battle as we pedaled off to school. Sounds like a recipe for fattening children but we were lean as greyhounds.</p><p style="text-align: center;">I have had, like the rest of the world, my sourdough adventures in recent months, a steep learning curve with some good results, some not so good; a lot of good flour under the bridge to keep it fed. Still working on it. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM4hqWdfxW5rmc9rtqO_pLtfE8NNRM6tV1P0LsUhEeUlTgg0vygln5l9U4JAw67oDsydw3mS5h9NQXsRVctYTzQzdMAeWfPgBlECt28_a-pHAp32U00Z8KbVzxqwEz4Byvf6MWPg/s2048/sourdough.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM4hqWdfxW5rmc9rtqO_pLtfE8NNRM6tV1P0LsUhEeUlTgg0vygln5l9U4JAw67oDsydw3mS5h9NQXsRVctYTzQzdMAeWfPgBlECt28_a-pHAp32U00Z8KbVzxqwEz4Byvf6MWPg/s320/sourdough.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">But, this past week I was craving soda bread. No starter, no yeast required. I have a few favorite recipes, but any recipe with the main ingredients will usually turn out fine. I found one on Google (I sometimes wonder why I keep all my cookbooks, and folders of clipped recipes, as I so often turn to Google instead!)</p><p style="text-align: center;">Flour? check. Salt? check. Sugar? check. Baking powder. check. Buttermilk? Hmm. Fingers crossed as I go to the fridge. check! There it is, lurking in the back. The sell by date is a few weeks past but the eyes and the nose detect nothing funky. Onward. Toss in a cup of juicy raisins, stir it all together, pop it in the oven, set the timer....</p><p style="text-align: center;">And wait, in confident anticipation.</p><p style="text-align: center;">But....</p><p style="text-align: center;">It was a disaster!</p><p style="text-align: center;"> Instead of rising, and doubling in size, it looked the same size as when I'd popped it in. </p><p style="text-align: center;">"Here's a job for you, Sherlock," I thought (after I'd finished groaning.)</p><p style="text-align: center;">Sherlock ascertained that we were still well within the 'best if used by' date on the baking powder. Though it was the very dregs, as the can was almost empty. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I let it cool. Who knew? Magic could still happen. Wishful thinking - another of my talents.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Sad to report, no magic happened.</p><p style="text-align: center;">What a surprise.</p><p style="text-align: center;">By and by the OC arrived home. Even though it smelled of baking, I warned him not to get his hopes up. That, even though it might seem I had made soda bread, what I had, in fact, made was a block of cement. </p><p style="text-align: center;">"Not to worry," I said, "it won't be a total waste. I'll feed it to the birds."</p><p style="text-align: center;">But I wasn't quick enough. The birds never got it. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Maybe the OC is an optimist. Or a <br />masochist? Either way, he has been chipping away at that block of cement, grimacing all the while, in spite of me protesting </p><p style="text-align: center;"> "You don't have to eat that! It's gonna to kill you!" </p><p style="text-align: center;">"It reminds me of hardtack in the military," he said, with a faraway look in his eyes (and a grimace.) </p><p style="text-align: center;">Those must be good memories, though, somehow, I doubt it.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Possibly it's a test. If it doesn't kill him, will it make him stronger? </p><p style="text-align: center;">There are only two slices left. (Maybe I'll sneak them out to the birds... but, will the bird mamas then swoop down and peck me to death for trying to kill their babies?)</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLXWMnqlub50yI66M8iFrYiuwcfc_izhiTQ8PD-dr7NxULPSrRcBvAOl9RwUMXnJWeTez08-xPaZjAsN6TzFd8tdRNZyTOPnQoc2v4PybY8MxVqBWx1PAGtf8jgGYpLpPg6g2SFw/s1080/cement+slices.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLXWMnqlub50yI66M8iFrYiuwcfc_izhiTQ8PD-dr7NxULPSrRcBvAOl9RwUMXnJWeTez08-xPaZjAsN6TzFd8tdRNZyTOPnQoc2v4PybY8MxVqBWx1PAGtf8jgGYpLpPg6g2SFw/s320/cement+slices.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"> His mother, who learned the hard way in the last world war to never waste a crumb, must be looking down smiling.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> But not at me. </p><p style="text-align: center;">This would be proof that she was right. That the chances were good that her boy would die, with me in his kitchen. Which makes me love the friends who think I <i>can </i>actually cook and bake, bless their innocence. Never mind that they only see or taste my successes. The OC suffers through all my disasters. Apparently willingly, or perhaps as penance for his sins.</p><p style="text-align: center;">After fifty years though, he's still alive and kicking.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"> One way or the other, I had to redeem myself so I made soda bread again today - with fresh ingredients.</p><p style="text-align: center;">(That's it at the top - I had to start with something tempting. If I'd put those cement slices first you'd never have lasted to here.) </p><p style="text-align: center;">And this time it <i>is</i> delicious. </p><p style="text-align: center;">My tiara is on straight again.</p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-29813950401143877422021-04-27T15:40:00.002-04:002021-04-27T15:41:04.474-04:00This One's for You Noreen!<p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPfYKQFRoIKe0eeedMTI8ohoh47YeNzM75QBRplOMAkTGkpQ-cIi1TJQqZH_ACnBKPEA__UnnXoIMgspylzsrhI0NAl_35_miT3Zf_HXY7uL3-PT28JnGWknrmzDccnXOHlD6tNg/s1080/ducklings.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="921" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPfYKQFRoIKe0eeedMTI8ohoh47YeNzM75QBRplOMAkTGkpQ-cIi1TJQqZH_ACnBKPEA__UnnXoIMgspylzsrhI0NAl_35_miT3Zf_HXY7uL3-PT28JnGWknrmzDccnXOHlD6tNg/s320/ducklings.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"> "Why are you no longer writing on your blog?"</p><p style="text-align: center;">My friend's voice had a hint of whine in it, as though I had done her wrong.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> We were working on fixing a large hole in the middle of a quilt she had made several years ago for her grandson. The quilt was faded and worn, obviously well loved and much used by her grandson, and possibly even by his dog. Maybe the dog liked how it tasted - all fabric-y and smelling of his master? I didn't ask. The repair job was not a thing of beauty but it rendered the quilt once more usable.</p><p style="text-align: center;">"But I <i>am</i> writing on my blog," I replied, ruefully adding, "once in the blue moon."</p><p style="text-align: center;">And why? Because it seems pointless. Who needs to read yet another tale of mask wearing, social distancing, vaccine or no vaccine, zooming - that pathetic substitute for face-to-face, eyeball-to-eyeball connection with other human beings. And because, not going out and mingling with other people for so long, inspiration is at a low ebb. Maybe I don't want to be boring. Better to be silent.</p><p style="text-align: center;">But still, the carnival in my head carries on regardless.</p><p style="text-align: center;">"But I love reading your blog," she protested.</p><p style="text-align: center;">And I'm as susceptible to flattery as the next person. Butter me up and I'll follow you anywhere. </p><p style="text-align: center;">So, in the style of beating a dead horse, here are some of the thoughts and things that are saving my sanity while the world as we knew it crumbles around us.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Quilting is like therapy. Granted, I cannot quilt from a prone position on a couch, but the results are as beneficial as if I could. It calms the mind, quiets the internal chatter, promotes a feeling of virtue (I'm getting stuff done, moving one more project to the finish line -yeah!)</p><p style="text-align: center;">I even took a project to the Northwest when I went to visit youngest son in March. And even though the airline would eject you without a mask, every seat was taken on the flight there, so social distancing? Impossible. And yet we all survived. The project was a quilt for my sister's newest grandson, born just before Christmas. The pattern is simple squares from whatever children's fabrics I had on hand, brought together with sashing and borders of a green I've had around for years. So, win win. A quilt for a new baby and a reduction in my fabric stash. Now all I want to know is when is sis coming to pick it up!</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7FnKlO_7Itr4-Q4n0Oi2S2oUYhl2pSepdahLCb7I59aszW6HCcePyG9_-mt1fPNnohPfN6XgvK31BAqQwKlEOYKb-L123cr3BYV0g7rdMpAGg4tMT8UaVMH9sfaLQzOzau_K4pw/s1876/liamsquilt.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1876" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7FnKlO_7Itr4-Q4n0Oi2S2oUYhl2pSepdahLCb7I59aszW6HCcePyG9_-mt1fPNnohPfN6XgvK31BAqQwKlEOYKb-L123cr3BYV0g7rdMpAGg4tMT8UaVMH9sfaLQzOzau_K4pw/s320/liamsquilt.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">I have been stitching in the ditch to quilt it. Should finish that today, then onwards to the binding, then <i>done!</i></p><p style="text-align: center;">The OC walked by as I was pinning the layers. He despairs of my scattershot methods - how many projects do I have at any given time, in various states of done-ness?</p><p style="text-align: center;">Who's this one for, he asked. I told him. So how is R's quilt coming along? Smirk. Not to worry. I'll be getting to it as soon as this one's on its way. He seemed unconvinced, as is R also. She's been promised a quilt for years. I think she thought I'd be mailing it from the far side. But no. I actually have most of the fabric - Kaffe Fassett, no less, the luminous colors of which draw juice from my teeth. Had I made her a quilt sooner she'd not have gotten one so perfectly suited to her Bohemian, riotously colorful personality. Fear not, you will see it when it's done.</p><p style="text-align: center;">There are other things of course. I have spent time already this year herding cats, babysitting ducklings, reading voraciously and continuing my efforts to master sourdough - along with the rest of the world, but, for today, this, I think, is enough.</p><p style="text-align: center;">So, no more whining Noreen!</p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-81845016676241633512021-03-13T20:05:00.001-05:002021-03-13T20:05:41.621-05:00The Uninvited Guest <p style="text-align: center;"> There's a lizard living in the closet of my sewing room. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I'm not happy about it, much as I like lizards - in their place (outside). I don't think he's too happy about it either. He probably found a door open recently due to our beautiful Spring weather and decided to explore the human habitat, not thinking, silly fellow, that the door would soon close and he'd be trapped. </p><p style="text-align: center;">I'm not a screamer but I did give a yelp and leapt backwards with surprising agility the first time I saw him. Thankfully, I saw at once that my visitor was not a snake. I can tolerate snakes in the garden, just not slithering around indoors, disappearing into inaccessible corners with no knowing when they might re-emerge and give me a heart attack. I opened the door from my sewing room to the great outdoors to entreat him to depart, keeping a wary eye lest any of his compadres decided to join him, but he was having none of it. </p><p></p><p style="text-align: center;">The standard lizard diet of insects, larvae, worms and the occasional small, hapless frog is not on offer in these premises. I would'nt like him to die in my sewing room. It's a creative place where new quilts are born and grow, albeit slowly, to quilt adulthood. I would'nt want it to be a portal to the lizard underworld. It was a mistake for him to let his curiosity lead him astray. We all know what curiosity did to the cat. We have found the occasional shrivelled, crispy tree frog or lizard inside before. It's not a big deal. No odor, no mess, but no life either, and it's so warm and sunny outside. </p><p style="text-align: center;">He really ought to avail himself of that open door. But he's not convinced. He prefers the closet where I can only hope he's not dining on fabric and patterns. For one thing, I would seriously doubt their nutritional content. I now approach my sewing machine warily as his preferred time to be out and about, visible on the light colored carpet, is when I'm not there. Soon as I approach, he scurries back to his hideout. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">Meanwhile, I've absconded to the Northwest for a visit, leaving the OC and our uninvited guest to duke it out in the hallway outside the sewing room, should Mr. Lizard tire of fabric and patterns and go in search of more appealing fare. Otherwise there'll likely be a shrivelled, crispy lizard cadaver waiting for me under the sewing table when I return.</p><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31711654.post-29673579185882147522021-03-04T11:06:00.001-05:002021-03-04T11:06:52.026-05:00Treasure in the Garden<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXjn57ypbVc8Gh1j2e68CeXWGUaYjpPgH4Vs4mHqOag3D5y21aPneUJ9w5WEVmAMKzXASZGcBUPopryYhr_9l9HO2dpnDdsZnT34fCTUQSJArSDwyP6AU0gG55zGcdnrPeskc-qA/s2048/20210304_101755.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXjn57ypbVc8Gh1j2e68CeXWGUaYjpPgH4Vs4mHqOag3D5y21aPneUJ9w5WEVmAMKzXASZGcBUPopryYhr_9l9HO2dpnDdsZnT34fCTUQSJArSDwyP6AU0gG55zGcdnrPeskc-qA/s320/20210304_101755.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"> Sunday was another beautiful day - this time of year is when Florida and paradise are synonomous. I was wandering lazily around and eventually found myself in the shade garden. That's fancy for a section of our garden that used to be wild and jungley but we trimmed and clipped and tamed it a bit, and carved a winding path through it, and now it's my favourite corner. So there I am, in the shade garden, picking up twigs and fallen branches. I see something that looks like a dried leaf that drifted down from the canopy and got caught on some palmetto palms. But, as I go to pluck it off, I see that it is no leaf but a beautiful moth, and no midget either! </div><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNw0DZHNIBvjwyAgAWd1nb9-KgJoKTGC0wtNbx75JS8DEoacv8Y1bi0FPHbq6GtYNE-I0UeYTXXkIvHqgMVCwNEtRvgY2ohdY7WV5v1OVvd1v4YGSe5io9kY7aqyG1Y_EiQQ6E5w/s1080/silkmoth1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="608" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNw0DZHNIBvjwyAgAWd1nb9-KgJoKTGC0wtNbx75JS8DEoacv8Y1bi0FPHbq6GtYNE-I0UeYTXXkIvHqgMVCwNEtRvgY2ohdY7WV5v1OVvd1v4YGSe5io9kY7aqyG1Y_EiQQ6E5w/w225-h400/silkmoth1.jpg" width="225" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><p style="text-align: center;">"Don't move!" I told him. "Stay right there while I run inside for my phone..."</p><p style="text-align: center;">He was very good. He waited. Posed obligingly for a couple of shots, then fluttered away, but just to the leaf litter underfoot where he spread his wings to show the full extent of his handsomeness, and his scary 'face' too, perhaps to discourage any unworthy intentions I might have been harboring. I had none. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg0QmHZJx8b-02s2ng1RZZvRqTYlWw8_wxtvLAyaWAmGusht0C4eDDGpa3RUSsKh9aRNg3HQslgIWnvTxkiEV73nRQz9igAgxtlCiioIOjIkoUgcsEwFgXG2hFNcyGkBn9EnfdaKw/s1080/wings+spread.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="608" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg0QmHZJx8b-02s2ng1RZZvRqTYlWw8_wxtvLAyaWAmGusht0C4eDDGpa3RUSsKh9aRNg3HQslgIWnvTxkiEV73nRQz9igAgxtlCiioIOjIkoUgcsEwFgXG2hFNcyGkBn9EnfdaKw/s320/wings+spread.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;">I was elated to have found him. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWfO6yK_-yeOQe0S3CqNMJxpYqzbLpWMG_xP7FcZdutGUt5LTtpEsxP0CL0vzIbFC6JEyWr-firPKcX84zYUpLpc_JJpI0sI6lJI3e977pi5SVr8wfTSt0_2UNF0pTrZp1KR8nEQ/s1080/away+now.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="608" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWfO6yK_-yeOQe0S3CqNMJxpYqzbLpWMG_xP7FcZdutGUt5LTtpEsxP0CL0vzIbFC6JEyWr-firPKcX84zYUpLpc_JJpI0sI6lJI3e977pi5SVr8wfTSt0_2UNF0pTrZp1KR8nEQ/s320/away+now.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;">It reminded me that we don't need to travel to the ends of creation to find beauty and wonder. It's right there, under our noses, in a leaf, a flower, a bug, a pine cone, a spider web. </p><p style="text-align: center;">Every day. </p><p style="text-align: center;">In spite of Covid 19.</p><p style="text-align: center;"> </p><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p>mollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03797484583400519909noreply@blogger.com8